Comment on The Wagon
LodeMike@lemmy.today 4 days ago
Okay, now swap the genders
girlfriends deadass get mad when u touch their butt like it’s our fault they got the wagon??? no one asked u to be double cheeked up like this. u stupid ass bad bitch. thick ass slice of heaven. why u walk in the room n ur ass walks in 5 minutes later.
Ok. So?
Now swap them again.
Whoa hold on I’m not sure that’s allowed
Well now it seems abusive, doesn’t it? Are you going to advocate for touching women in a way that makes them feel uncomfortable? Solid point tbh.
I don’t see this as that.
My reading is that “I want to touch my GFs butt but I won’t since she’ll get mad, but I really want to”.
Nothing wrong with really wanting to. Maybe don’t call your SO a bitch though.
It all comes down to consent and communication - not just about butts (or gender). Your partner may or may not like it when you touch them a certain way. They may also tolerate an interaction even if they don’t seek it out.
If your partner complains when you do something to them, it’s possibly they’re just playing around, but if there’s any doubt you should either stop that behavior or discuss with the partner whether it’s okay. It also may be something situational - the partner might like something in the midst of passion, but not while walking down the hallway.
You shouldn’t not touch your partner’s butt because they’ll get mad. You should not touch it if they don’t want you to because that would be a violation of their trust and desires.
That said, if the partner is cool with it, you should definitely touch their butt.
It quite clearly says “gets mad when I touch it” not “I dream about touching it”
No, you all have a stick up your ass trying to turn every interaction into a micro aggression.
No, it doesn’t seem abusive either way.
My gf grabs my butt all the time and I grab hers, even in public (discreetly)
and she absolutely likes it
stoicmaverick@lemmy.world 4 days ago
Women are drowning while men are dying of thirst. Neither can fully appreciate the plight of the other, but we can abide it. I won’t touch your butt uninvited, but I’m cool with it.