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josephc@lemmy.ml 11 hours agoI had to noodle on this one for a while and ask around. I think, and this is only a guess, that this might be “consensual non-consent”, which is a role play of sexual assault.
casmael@mander.xyz 5 hours ago
stray@pawb.social 8 hours ago
It’s not necessarily role play of assault, though it can be that. It can also mean that blanket consent has been given ahead of time, and so the subject is unaware of what may happen to them or when, and by the nature of it can’t give specific consent for any particular action. It can have to do with pushing/exploring boundaries, a power dynamic kink, or just enjoying the element of surprise, among others.
If you’re doing it right, consent can be withdrawn at any time via a pre-established non-verbal signal and/or safeword, and any bondage equipment will have safety releases.
icelimit@lemmy.ml 3 hours ago
Wow. A sex nerd
josephc@lemmy.ml 7 hours ago
Good info. Thank you.
Hadriscus@jlai.lu 6 hours ago
So, essentially command and conquer
Hux@lemmy.ml 9 hours ago
Wow, I’ve never been more terrified of “CNC machines”…
kokesh@lemmy.world 11 hours ago
Wtf?
Zwiebel@feddit.org 11 hours ago
Doesn’t have to be roleplay, just the agreement that no or stop doesn’t mean stop, and a safeword instead
rovingnothing29@lemmy.world 11 hours ago
The safe word is Flower, but they keep saying Flour. What gives?
Stamets@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 hours ago
This is why I choose ‘Fiduciary Responsibility’ as my safeword.
Thedogdrinkscoffee@lemmy.ca 11 hours ago
The safe word is FLÜGGÅӘNKб€ČHIŒßØLĮÊN
Xanthrax@lemmy.world 9 hours ago
My partners into it. I’m into BDSM and it even threw me off for a while. I think of it like the most extreme version of a sub/ dom relationship with roleplay. It’s definitely something that requires a whole lot of forethought, communication, and most of all, CONSENT.
Pistcow@lemmy.world 11 hours ago
That’s the spirt!
Diplomjodler3@lemmy.world 9 hours ago
I had to learn to program CNC machines with punch tape back in the eighties, so not too far off.
Luffy879@lemmy.ml 9 hours ago
Yep, thats it
Grandwolf319@sh.itjust.works 11 hours ago
Wait so not command and conquer?
SpaceCowboy@lemmy.ca 7 hours ago
The safe word is “Tiberium.”
AlecSadler@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 hours ago
Red Alert was such great times.
Stamets@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 hours ago
SPAAAAyAAAAACE
blindbunny@lemmy.ml 10 hours ago
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corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 8 hours ago
GREAT theme music riff.
varyingExpertise@feddit.org 8 hours ago
Well, usually all parties taking party in a Command and Conquer match have consented to do so but what happens then usually involves quite a bit of non-consent.
foofiepie@lemmy.world 5 hours ago
Ah nostalgia. Please tell me there’s a Linux port of this.
fakeman_pretendname@feddit.uk 5 hours ago
There’s openra.net which is an open source “all the Command and Conquer games” engine, which may be of interest?
foofiepie@lemmy.world 5 hours ago
Wow thank you. RIP my free time for a while.
josephc@lemmy.ml 10 hours ago
Oh! That could be it!
SPACE!