I'd say two decades ago, maybe even three. Pensions gone, social security inadequate, ira/401k sorta a joke.
Comment on This 81-year-old still works at Home Depot to support herself and her 90-year-old husband
some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 1 day ago
Welcome to what younger generations realized a decade ago or more. Most of us will never own a home or retire. I plan to end it when my life becomes unbearable in old age rather than be a slave to the system. That’s why, even though we (spouse and I) financially save for the future, I live for now. We (collectively) have no future. Accepting it is easier than being depressed about it.
Note: this doesn’t mean I don’t do what I can to try to save our (collective) future. It’d be selfish not to try.
HubertManne@piefed.social 6 hours ago
AJ1@lemmy.ca 22 hours ago
My retirement plan is assisted suicide (in Canada, of course). Feels weird to be saving for death, but this is the reality we live in. What else can I do? Wait until I can’t work anymore and can’t pay my mortgage and hydro bill? And then what, hang myself in the barn? Fuck that, I want to go out high af and feeling no pain.
MangioneDontMiss@lemmy.ca 18 hours ago
this just makes me wonder even more why people aren’t more open to direct (violent) action. Seriously if this is the outlook, what is holding people back?
some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 11 hours ago
Genuine abhorrence of violence. Even though I think (know) it’s the only way we can overcome the lying, cheating, violent bastards on the other side, growing up in an abusive home makes the idea nauseating to me.
I do believe we’ll reach a point where we have no choice, though I fear that will happen when it’s too late.
Also, conditioning by mass media over a lifetime.
MangioneDontMiss@lemmy.ca 10 hours ago
We’ve been brainwashed to believe things like vigilantism are bad and that violence should be avoided at all costs because it makes you a bad person. Republicans are out there forming militias and the left is sitting on its hands hoping that their corrupt and weak fisted leadership will solve all their problems. We are so fucked its almost funny. All we can really do now is hope that it gets so bad that it finally snaps the masses out of its complacent stupor and into some sort of real action beyond just standing around holding signs like a bunch of naive idiots.
some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 8 hours ago
I couldn’t agree more. That’s why people love Luigi so much and why there’s no sympathy for the Blackrock CEO who got killed at random. People are happy to see action; they just aren’t ready to act.
RaivoKulli@sopuli.xyz 17 hours ago
Inertia
Eyekaytee@aussie.zone 22 hours ago
You are in a dual income no kids situation and think you’ll never own a home? Where do you live where a dual income can’t support buying a house…
some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 10 hours ago
This 81-year-old still works at Home Depot to support herself and her 90-year-old husband
Bay Area, California. And before you tell me to move to a place where I can afford a cheaper home, I don’t want to live in any of those places. I’ve lived in them and I hated them for various reasons. This is the one place in the USA where I feel absolutely at home.
Eyekaytee@aussie.zone 10 hours ago
it’s cool but so far 4/4 people have said they live in california, it’s clear it’s expensive for a reason
some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 8 hours ago
One reason is jobs. People with skills in tech can’t always work full-time remote and have to come to the office at least enough to have to be able to drive there (and honestly, the best jobs are here by multiple definitions). Another is the culture. I literally feel absolutely at home here in a way that I might only experience in a few other places in the country (maybe Portland, for example, but there’s a lot of racists in that state). Another is the weather. After living in places with ultra hot summers and ultra cold winters, I don’t have any tolerance for dealing with that shit again. It’s a nice trifecta of what I want / need to live the life that I want to live.
As an aside, living here also exposes me to a ton of live music that isn’t accessible in other parts of the country. Take bands that come from oversees. Where are they almost guaranteed to play? Large coastal cities like NY, SF, LA. There are so many bands that come here that can’t make a profit playing any but the largest cities because they aren’t super popular in the states, but they can draw enough people in large urban areas to make it worth their while. Examples that I’ve seen recently (last few years): Air, Kula Shaker, Lords of Acid, Ladytron, Ott, The Presets. Good luck seeing all of them in Denver or Houston.
hypnotoad__@lemmy.ml 22 hours ago
Ever been to Cali? I love it here but good god it’s crazy
MangioneDontMiss@lemmy.ca 18 hours ago
There are plenty of more affordable places to live in CA. I finally moved to one of them during the Pandemic and its prob one of the best decisions I ever made. I’ve had a lot of job offers since then, but most have been dependant on moving back to those expensive areas. I’ve turned down a lot of jobs.
FelixCress@lemmy.world 19 hours ago
Cali, Colombia?
return2ozma@lemmy.world 21 hours ago
Californian here. Studios are starting around $3,200 where I live in socal.
ChickenLadyLovesLife@lemmy.world 7 hours ago
I have a cousin who lives in LA. He rents a studio for something like $1100 a month, in a decent part of the city. Apparently it’s rent-controlled, which is something I’ve never heard of as far as Los Angeles is concerned.
To be honest, I heard of all this through his mother. I kind of suspect he’s lying to her and is actually a drug dealer and his place costs a lot more than he’s letting on.
MangioneDontMiss@lemmy.ca 18 hours ago
man… i remember paying 800 a month for a studio in the bay area in 2006. And that studio was right on the water with an ocean view. $3200 is absolutely disgusting.
Eyekaytee@aussie.zone 19 hours ago
is it not possible to move to a place with houses which are lower in price?
MangioneDontMiss@lemmy.ca 18 hours ago
not for a lot of people when every single fuckface ceo is trying to get people to RTO.
WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 19 hours ago
I plan to get a small bomb for when I had enough. Have some issues though so far.
MangioneDontMiss@lemmy.ca 18 hours ago
plenty of instructions online detailing how to make your own
WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 14 hours ago
I can’t just search that up, that will raise red flags…
MangioneDontMiss@lemmy.ca 11 hours ago
let me introduce you to my friends Tor and VPN.
return2ozma@lemmy.world 23 hours ago
Somebody launch my carcass through a billionaires front window please when I’m old.
MeatPilot@lemmy.world 22 hours ago
Only if I can strap dynamite to you first.
return2ozma@lemmy.world 21 hours ago
Duh
Resonosity@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 hours ago
Shove it in my ass please
AJ1@lemmy.ca 22 hours ago
I think that goes without saying
muusemuuse@sh.itjust.works 19 hours ago
Yes! Go full exploding beach whale!
gravitas_deficiency@sh.itjust.works 20 hours ago
A noble purpose 🫡