Comment on Tender moments
SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 1 day agoBetter ending: they found their third
Eh, doubt that would be better. Among the Ethically Non-Monogmous, couples looking for a third are considered the worst. They’re invariably looking for a woman to play out the guy’s MFF fantasy. She might be OK with it as a birthday present for him or whatever, but it’s not something she’d choose to do otherwise. If they do manage to find someone, it often doesn’t go well.
I think these couples need to put some cash aside and find an escort.
“looking for a woman to play out the guy’s MFF fantasy”
Sometimes the driving force is a bi-curious woman. What usually happens is that the boyfriend agrees to it because he sees a MDF threesome as being hot, and sapphic love as being less real or serious. Then he freaks out during/after the hookup because of insecurity he feels when seeing his girlfriend enthusiastically making out with a woman. I’ve learned the unpleasant way that it’s no fun to be unicorn hunted.
The worst part is when they try to hide what they’re doing. I once only found out a woman had a boyfriend and that they were looking for a MFF threesome on the third date. Trying to hide their intentions is gross because it shows they have some awareness of how people don’t like being instrumentalised in this way.
Nurse_Robot@lemmy.world 1 day ago
Best ending: they both found out they weren’t happy in the relationship, moved on, and found their person
HowAbt2morrow@futurology.today 1 day ago
Bestest ending: and they continue spotting each other on Tinder while in their new happy relationship.
GusTheBard@midwest.social 20 hours ago
This bestest ending has levels of sadness. You made me sad. You ruined it.
Please say you are sorry so I can go pick up my new (used) car with good vibes only
HowAbt2morrow@futurology.today 19 hours ago
I’ll say sorry, but through our Tinder profiles.