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MTK@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Ah yes, “cocksucker” as the first insult to come to mind, the sign of a good person
KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
MTK@lemmy.world 2 months ago
It implies that for a man, sucking cock (a legitimate sexual act for any gender) is an insult because that would make him gay. So Homophobic.
cypherpunks@lemmy.ml 2 months ago
imo the pejorative connotation of that word is (like many expressions of homophobia) ultimately rooted in misogyny
“always has been” meme with “wait, it’s all about maintaining the patriarchy?”
beejboytyson@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Dam I thought it was just a thing boring white ppl say. Imma used that retort.
Gonzako@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Man, I love cocksuckers I’d get me one of those
BigBananaDealer@lemm.ee 2 months ago
its because hes submissive. its a power thing not a gay thing
abbotsbury@lemmy.world 2 months ago
That’s still degrading to fellators.
And idk if I’d say it’s a power thing, cocksuckers are the active participant in a blow job, and I’d say the submissive one is the one with their meat between a pair of teeth.
MTK@lemmy.world 2 months ago
He could have also said “vaginalicker” but he didn’t, he used a well known homophobic slur. Also, if he wanted to say submissive he could have used well known submissive insults.
WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
Or you’re Swearingen from Deadwood.
rektdeckard@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I think I know where he got his name now
KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
ok?
So what if i just argued that “cocksucker” just meant that you would suck someones cock if you got you something. I.E. you’re easily bribed/manipulated. As far as i know, that’s how most people use it.
That’s literally the implication like 99% of the time. If you wanted to insult someone for being gay, you would just call them a faggot or something lmao. No need to mince words at that point.
MTK@lemmy.world 2 months ago
en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cock_(slang)#Cocksucker
Just learn a bit before bothering others with educating you. History matters, the way that this slur has been used historically and presently, is mostly homophobic.
Sorry for the short temper, this thread has been too long and I already explained this on another comment.
Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Why is “cuntlicker” not also a common insult? #equalrights
lagoon8622@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
They should both be high complements imo
Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I agree, you cocksucking cuntlicking fatherfucker.
lukstru@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I‘d say fatherfucker is still derogatory - after all, it’s still incest. Fatherhugger? Manhugger?
ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net 2 months ago
If there was a Olympics on it, I want to excel at cuntlicking.