Comment on The consequences (of my actions) have been extreme

Ledivin@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

• KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  derek is still a cunt though. If you join and find shit you don’t like the first thing you should do is confront people. Either derek just likes causing people problems (and is a problematic individual) or he is not very bright and thinks that everything people say must be 100% true and serious.

  I would not ever want to be friends with derek, that’s for sure.

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• amanneedsamaid@sopuli.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  I think that’s obtuse, comedy has no limits: As long as you don’t act upon uncomfortable / morally reprehensible ideas you joke about, you aren’t any worse or better than if you had never joked about it. I would argue that exposing a bunch of people for what they joke about with no evidence that they’ve actually done something wrong is far worse than joking about offensive subjects. (one has zero negative affects, the other has many)

  (I must say I disagree completely with that guy sharing messages from his girlfriend- that piece is very weird and a total breach of trust)

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  • ColeSloth@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    If the public got to hear first hand all the black humor that goes on in the EMS field, society might further collapse.

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  • exasperation@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    (I must say I disagree completely with that guy sharing messages from his girlfriend- that piece is very weird and a total breach of trust)

    My impression from the original post was that kind of stuff was what drove most of the fallout. Leaked off color memes aren’t going to ruin people’s relationships, but leaked shit talk or breaches of someone else’s privacy will.

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    • KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      but leaked shit talk or breaches of someone else’s privacy will.

      shit talk and leaking messages is pretty bad, but that’s really common these days unfortunately. I wonder how frequently texts like that are shared between female group chats. Depends on the person, and the group, but they are just more connected.

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      • FrostBlazer@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        Speaking ill of someone not present to defend themselves is commonly in bad tastes, imo. Commonality of occurrence certainly doesn’t make it any less wrongful. I don’t think it’s a gender specific issue based on the story being about guys doing this.

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  • feedum_sneedson@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Everyone on here is an insufferable twat.

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  • blady_blah@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Keep in mind the source of this story. The author has every reason to describe the stuff on their group chat sound tame, so if it sounds bad, it’s probably 3 times worse than that.

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• nimpnin@sopuli.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  How do you know that?

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  • rishado@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    East, by having an inflated ego and a holier than thou attitude! 👍

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  • SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Because they’re a fucking idiot, duh.

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