Zagam

@Zagam@piefed.social

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨pick your side⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  I park in veteran parking spots. No one has asked if I’m allowed yet but yeah, I’m part of the reason there’s dispenceries in my town. Fought in the wars, and won. Thankyouverymuch.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Does being a ‘hero’ mean you are a perfect person?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  A hero is only a hero from one perspective.
  There was a movie in ’92 called Hero that sort of explores this a bit. It’s not a great movie, but it has a sort of scummy guy do something great and a sort of OK guy do something scummy.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Does being a ‘hero’ mean you are a perfect person?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  Dude. For some reason Underdog got mixed up with Mighty Mouse in my head and I could not figure out wtf you were on about. It took me a full minute to have this all click.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨How do I keep a 9 year old from constantly licking erasers and putting them in his mouth⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Do like my ol’ dad did make him smoke a whole pack. It’ll put him off forever.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Share them all!⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  I do too but to be fair I also have more pics of my goats than my kids on my phone.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨what advice can you give me to try and mend a broken friendship so we don't interrupt each other or yell at each other while trying to solve our issues?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Shut up and listen. No, not just don’t talk and wait your turn to talk, listen. Really listen. Don’t just hear. Pay attention to what they are saying. And don’t rush to respond. Real communication isn’t just back and forth. It’s understanding. And you can’t do that if you’re just busy waiting your turn or trying to come up with your reply.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Looking for a PC FPS with deep gunplay, where NPC enemies are humans⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Arma3? Pretty mil-sim. There are solo mission mods you can add too.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨“TO THE PERPETRATORS WHO STOLE MY ASS: I HAVE BOTH HANDS ENGAGED IN FINDING IT AND YOU WILL SOON FACE THE FULL FORCE IF THE LAW!!!”⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I know folks say it looks like he trusted the wrong fart, but to me he always looks like he's terrified that everyone around him will figure out he's not white any second now.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Hypothetically, if you have memory problems and need to write down events, is there a system which you can verify that its not tampered with? (Like a digital checksum, but for a journal)⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I can't remember if I've seen it or not.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨música⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Yeah, that's fair.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨música⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I contend that D.R.I is Skate Punk, not Thrash.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨[deleted]⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  You say in a comment that it's your house and that your ex loves the house, area, etc. Well, when you divorced that was one of the things that stopped being a couple thing and started being an individual thing. This is just part of being apart. My wife and my ex get along fine but there's no way we could be in the same house. I think its probably time to finish separating and be in a place where you can be fully with your current partner and put energy into helping the kids through this. But this is just opinion.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨I wonder how many people throughout history have confused Floaters with ghosts, UFOs, or other paranormal phenomena⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Sittin' here on the toilet, it took me a second to shift the word "floaters" into proper context.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨[deleted]⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Yeah. If you're into it, do it. Never turn down a chance to learn something or develop a skill. Pick your audience when using a skill though. You may be able to Hubble 5 balls, but a funeral probably isn't the place. Talking like a dude that stepped out of a time machine could be cool in a bar, but not so much if you're giving a presentation on finance.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨[deleted]⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Depends on the boss. I had a guy I worked for and we'd hang out off work. We'd go to lunch, some days go on hikes during lunch, and went camping a couple of times. He was really laid back, didn't care about my hours as long as I got my work done, and we built him a ramp in his backyard. More than once, he'd give me a bonus, send me to the pizza place for lunch, then tell me there was credit for me at the local tattoo shop. We still talk about every week or two. Good dude all around.

  My current boss is cool, fine to work for, doesn't care about my hours as long as I get my work done, and we joke and play around. But I'd never hang out with him. Just too different a life style.

  Past boss, no way. I didn't want him having my personal mobile phone number. You need to call me? You call me on the work cell. I come in, I do work. You tell me what you need done, you give me money. Not a bad guy, but that was just work.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Instead of asking all my stupid questions separately, could I just get a ton of "How to Adult" type resources in the comments?⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Find an executive functioning class and take it. It's, I think, becoming more and more a thing. My wife is starting to run them for local middle and high schoolers.
  And YouTube is your friend. You can find help for just about anything. Taxes, find someone local or just pay a person to do them. States all have different rules.