Zagam

@Zagam@piefed.social

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨[deleted]⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  You say in a comment that it's your house and that your ex loves the house, area, etc. Well, when you divorced that was one of the things that stopped being a couple thing and started being an individual thing. This is just part of being apart. My wife and my ex get along fine but there's no way we could be in the same house. I think its probably time to finish separating and be in a place where you can be fully with your current partner and put energy into helping the kids through this. But this is just opinion.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨I wonder how many people throughout history have confused Floaters with ghosts, UFOs, or other paranormal phenomena⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Sittin' here on the toilet, it took me a second to shift the word "floaters" into proper context.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨[deleted]⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Yeah. If you're into it, do it. Never turn down a chance to learn something or develop a skill. Pick your audience when using a skill though. You may be able to Hubble 5 balls, but a funeral probably isn't the place. Talking like a dude that stepped out of a time machine could be cool in a bar, but not so much if you're giving a presentation on finance.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨[deleted]⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Depends on the boss. I had a guy I worked for and we'd hang out off work. We'd go to lunch, some days go on hikes during lunch, and went camping a couple of times. He was really laid back, didn't care about my hours as long as I got my work done, and we built him a ramp in his backyard. More than once, he'd give me a bonus, send me to the pizza place for lunch, then tell me there was credit for me at the local tattoo shop. We still talk about every week or two. Good dude all around.

  My current boss is cool, fine to work for, doesn't care about my hours as long as I get my work done, and we joke and play around. But I'd never hang out with him. Just too different a life style.

  Past boss, no way. I didn't want him having my personal mobile phone number. You need to call me? You call me on the work cell. I come in, I do work. You tell me what you need done, you give me money. Not a bad guy, but that was just work.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Instead of asking all my stupid questions separately, could I just get a ton of "How to Adult" type resources in the comments?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Find an executive functioning class and take it. It's, I think, becoming more and more a thing. My wife is starting to run them for local middle and high schoolers.
  And YouTube is your friend. You can find help for just about anything. Taxes, find someone local or just pay a person to do them. States all have different rules.