kcuf

@kcuf@lemmy.world

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Your name better be Caleb⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago⁩:

  Look at this differently: your goal isn’t to give good head, it’s to make your partner feel good. The Caleb’s of the world aren’t just “fucking perfectly”, they’re providing their partner with what makes them feel best. Your most important skill in this regard is to listen. You need to hear and feel what your partner is telling you, and adapt. At the end of the day all you’re doing is applying pressure, moisture/warmth, basic movements (there’s nothing too crazy you can do), and enthusiasm. You have to sooth and excite them mentally as much as physically, and these are the physical levers you have to play with.

  If your partner is telling you that what you’re doing is great, then you’re hitting the physical areas fine most likely. You need to make sure you’re doing everything else too: they need to build to climax through appropriate foreplay (which could mean anything) and carried through that.

  Understand what your partner wants, and you will be a god

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Amazon Allegedly Replaced 40% of AWS DevOps With AI Days Before Crash⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  I feel like it’s directly contradicting what you were implying…

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Amazon Allegedly Replaced 40% of AWS DevOps With AI Days Before Crash⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Devops is often figuring out why automation didn’t work.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨AWS crash causes $2,000 Smart Beds to overheat and get stuck upright⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Likely has remote monitoring and control functionality for nursing staff or families

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Climate goals go up in smoke as US datacenters turn to coal⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Sure but energy use per datacenters was on a downward trend before ai, then it went the other way hard

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Google: 'Your $1000 phone needs our permission to install apps now'". Android users are screwed - Louis Rossmann⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  My guess is that it’s because people are using apps to get around Google’s revenue generating schemes, like apps to get YouTube without ads.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨GitHub CEO delivers stark message to developers: Embrace AI or get out.⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  That sounds like you’re still doing a lot of work. Is that net new work you wouldn’t have done before (like would you have needed to write those docs before as well)? Writing code never feels like the complicated or time expensive part to me. Figuring out what I want to do is, and I need to do that with either approach, and then thinking through how I’d like to organize things is another time sink, and perhaps that can be replaced/augmented by ai, but organizing things well requires long term thinking and is very hard to explain

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Idk I figured the cider was a plum apricot mix, not just from pluots, or that pluots acted like plums do… I only had beer that night, but the bride almost lost bowel control during the reception and the bathrooms were destroyed and backed up

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  A friend got a keg of pluot (spelling? Plum+apricot) cider for a wedding, that did not go well. I guess it tasted good, but there were not enough toilets…

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨The Plane That Crashed Yesterday Was the Same One a Dead Boeing Whistleblower Warned About⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  The 777 had the fuel intake from the tanks freeze over on approach to Heathrow. I don’t think that was an obvious problem: the intake was a flat hexagonal structure of smaller inlets that allowed the ice to form over. The fix was to stagger the smaller inlets so ice couldn’t form.