foggy
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- Comment on [deleted] 1 day ago:
How will your ex wife feel about seeing you two be intimate? For some this would be a fucking dagger in the soul. For others, could be hot. For others, indifferent.
Do you and you ex wife sleep in the same room? Will you and your girlfriend?
If the space is adequate, doesn’t involve a big physical relocation for your ex wife, the house is yours alone, the kids are old enough to understand, and you plan on all being respecful, the yeah, it can work.
That’s a bunch of ifs. Not all are in your control. Any are not met and you are the asshole.
If say it’s dicey.
- Comment on Do LLM modelers maintain a list of manual corrections fed by humans? 1 day ago:
The how many rs in strawberry breaks it because it doesnt read your question. It tokenized it. So it seems (straw)(berry) and knows contextually that when berry follows straw with no whitespace it means a different set of things that if there were white space.
The tokens have, basically, numeric value. So it doesn’t read your characters. That’s why that’s hard for it.
Ideas that recurse in themselves tend to fail as well. i.e. “say banana 142 times” will not produce the expected result.
As to how they fix them I’m not positive. There’s a bunch of ways to work around issues like these.
- Comment on Do you read analog clocks to the exact minute? How do you do this quickly? 2 days ago:
Step one: where is hour hand? Is it on a number or after? Is it approaching a new number? This is already enough to estimate.
Step two: where is minute hand? Is it on a number, or after? Is it approaching a new number? Dead center?
This is enough to get precise time within about 90s.
If the hour hand is a little past 5, I know the minute hand is between 12 and 4. Oh, it’s between the 2 and 3. Closer to the 2 but definitely past it.
It’s 5:12. Maybe 5:13. Maybe 5:11. Probably 5:12.
- Comment on My body started aging, but no one told me I’d still feel thirty inside 2 days ago:
Do more stuff.
You can get a lot of that back, it just takes more work when you’re older.
Go hike once a week. Chop some wood.
- Comment on Why is it so common to be interested in true crime when at the same time you're disturbed by it? 2 days ago:
Because you’re disturbed by it.
Sometimes it’s that simple.
- Comment on A real question about trans athletes and records 3 days ago:
Oops! Fixed.
And yeah I’m not a big NASCAR fan (can you tell)? But recognize a feat is a feat.
But it’s not different in that we’re talking about athletes with unfair advantages. Trans athletes have never shown their ‘leg up’ helped the dominate the field. The same cannot be said for Dale. That’s why I tease, do we take that accomplishment (that I got wrong 😳) away with an asterisk?
Of course not. Same goes for a trans athlete.
- Comment on A real question about trans athletes and records 3 days ago:
I tend to agree but it’s an interesting angle.
Like, were not about to tell NASCAR fans that Dale Earnheart Jr needs asterisks because, you know, his dad. He had quite the leg up!
- Comment on If I stood on a precision scale and farted, would I get lighter or heavier? 1 week ago:
Everyone quick spam his email
- Comment on What are some good "frugal" movie viewing setups? (Recommendations) 1 week ago:
VR headset and soundproof headphones.
Watch a movie on whatever setup you want. Shit, watch it at red rocks.
- Comment on A secret is something you keep, whilst a surprise is something you give. 1 week ago:
Most surprises start off as secrets.
- Comment on There is likely a government agency that can identify people by their cat. 1 week ago:
You thought you could fool the FCI?! We know you’re not who you claim to be!! That’s your cat, Pop Tart!
- Comment on Handling malicious coworker advice 1 week ago:
Manipulator. And not even a masterful one.
This is easy. Stop being nice to them and stop cutting them slack. Do your work and ignore them. They’ll sink their own ship here.
- Comment on Ant on a dating show "I like long walks on the peach" 2 weeks ago:
Girlfriend: I want longer cocks than your peen.
- Comment on [Inverse Thinking] How do I make sure my place gets messy again after I thoroughly cleaned and organized it? 2 weeks ago:
I switch between jeans and pjs for pants. Whatever I’m not wearing is on the ground near the couch.
Designate an empty corner as a random shit corner. Toss a deflated aero bed and an unused laptop bag over there, more will come. Trust the process.
Keep a blanket on the couch. Never make your bed.
Tissues will eventually make their way to the trash. No need to get up.
Always take home leftovers and never eat them.
- Comment on Two VPNs? 2 weeks ago:
I wouldn’t say setting up a reverse proxy (to your home LAN) is painful. Its just generally Ill advised. Its painful if compromised.
- Comment on Socially inept, introverted employees. How do you survive the workplace? Because I’m in dire need of some serious advice. 2 weeks ago:
Watch the video before going off on accusations.
- Comment on Socially inept, introverted employees. How do you survive the workplace? Because I’m in dire need of some serious advice. 2 weeks ago:
Hey so this is a YouTube video that is like 4 hours long but I am seeing a direct similarity here. I’m no doctor so, watch for yourself and see if it resonates.
Dr K is a monk turned psychiatrist who created a platform for helping get gamers mental health treatment. This is an interview with a streamer named Jason Thor Hall. He’s in the middle of a downward spiral during this interview and still to this day.
The tl;dw is that your communication style is (probably), to plenty, an oasis. So many people cannot stand the inane nonsense speak at work. However, you’re rigid in maintaining that oasis. And for those for whom it’s not an oasis, this rigidity is seen as standoffish. Sometimes to the point where people will assume it’s because you think they’re stupid, and will drive them to seek the gap in the ‘armor’ of your communication style.
I think this will resonate with many people who feel the way you feel. Myself included.
- Comment on I have never seen the 😗 emoji used, but I have seen a TON of :3 2 weeks ago:
I use the former of more of a make sure you’re okay when something was wrong. The latter In just expressing love.
- Comment on I wonder how many people throughout history have confused Floaters with ghosts, UFOs, or other paranormal phenomena 3 weeks ago:
Correct.
More photos of UFOs have been determined to be hats than have been undetermined.
- Comment on I wonder how many people throughout history have confused Floaters with ghosts, UFOs, or other paranormal phenomena 3 weeks ago:
Hats are more commonly the subject of UFO photos than UFOs.
- Comment on Is it okay to cover the outside of a microwave in aluminum to prevent or lessen microwave WiFi interference? 3 weeks ago:
Download a wifi analyzer app.
It’ll let you know which channels your microwaves 2.4ghz occupies. Google how to change your wifi to 5 GHz from 2.4. if not supported, just make sure whatever channel 2.4 vhz you’re on is nott the same as microwave
- Comment on How to get a new line in a post, but not two? 4 weeks ago:
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Learned. - Comment on Is the periodic table still getting new additions? 4 weeks ago:
Nuh uh I’m working on ununununium.
- Comment on When you're stressing against an opponent, remember, they're stressing just as much about you too 4 weeks ago:
Huh?
No they’re not.
Sometimes your opponent is just better than you, and crushing you is practice.
brb, gonna go destroy some folks confidence in THPS 3+4.
- Comment on What are your VPN recommendations for accessing self-hosted applications from the outside? 4 weeks ago:
It does work for this use case.
You don’t need to, you can use wire guard.
Mullvad is the only VPN you can pay for with cash and actually remain untraced.
- Comment on What are your VPN recommendations for accessing self-hosted applications from the outside? 4 weeks ago:
I didn’t say you need it. I strongly recommend the as a provider.
- Comment on What are your VPN recommendations for accessing self-hosted applications from the outside? 4 weeks ago:
No I am talking about creating a secure tunnel.
- Comment on What are your VPN recommendations for accessing self-hosted applications from the outside? 4 weeks ago:
Secure tunneling.
- Comment on Is it just my area or has this been an insanely humid summer? 4 weeks ago:
I live in a mountainous region.
The other day it was hot and humid.
So humid I could t see the mountains through the haze.
No clouds. Just an actual sea in the sky obscuring the mountains less than 20 miles away.
- Comment on What are your VPN recommendations for accessing self-hosted applications from the outside? 4 weeks ago:
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Mullvad
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Mullvad.
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