Are you implying that Thor is autistic like OP? Because he very much hasn’t stated so himself not ever talked about the topic as far as I’m aware.
I say this because Thor is very much a narcissist and equating this two things seems pretty disingenuous. The reason Thor is in a spiral is completely different to what OP is going through.
At least it doesn’t sound like OP used his massive influence to harm a small movement out of childish spite and was then punished by their arrogance, while completely unable or unwilling to understand maybe they are not perfect people and gamers.
For OP: Maybe you’re autistic, maybe just introverted. But like some other poster said, the unfortunate reality is that, in most jobs, it doesn’t matter what you know, but who you know, and most supervisors will pick someone they like over someone that’s a good worker.
We are also only hearing your side of the story which might be painting a different picture to what people on the other side see.
It’s also completely possible it’s actually unrelated to you and it’s them just looking for an excuse to move/fire people while skirting around Union protections.
My only recommendation for OP is, next time make sure you get whatever they say in writing. If it’s not on writing, it didn’t happen, for better or worse.
If you’re looking to build relationships at work, I’d say you need to put in an effort and figure out some way to enjoy those social spaces, it doesn’t have to be the same way everyone else does. But no one is going to enjoy talking to you if you don’t enjoy talking to them.
You don’t have to, of course, but your coworkers don’t have to either. It takes two to dance.
Nosavingthrow@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
I second this. I mostly prefer to keep to myself, but I have started seeing socializing with coworkers as a work duty. It is now no more taxing than doing paperwork. People seem to like me and seek my help, which was not the case previously. It’s also easier to get people to help me.