Submitted 8 months ago by fastandcurious@lemmy.world to nostupidquestions@lemmy.world
A follow up from my older asklemmy post, saying goodbye to a teacher who helped me a lot through my stuff, was thinking maybe chocolate, but one of the dudes said that it’s not a very good idea, I was thinking maybe a perfume/cologne? What do you guys suggest? She is in probably in her early 20s if it helps, and I am in senior high, damn this is getting weirder and weirder, I just want to run away lol
In my culture It’d be the other way around. Perfume could be romantic or mean ‘you smell’. Chocolade, self-made cake of muffins would be alright. Or something individual, a drawing if you can do it, a nice 3d print or whatever creative hobbies you have.
Don’t overthink it. A good rule of thumb, for teacher presents, are something to keep, and something to use up.
Something to use up is obvious and fairly easy. Chocolates etc work, as does wine, or bath “pampering” sets. The main thing is that they get used up and go away afterwards. Avoid excessive clutter, teachers can get a lot of it.
Something to keep is harder. You want to avoid generic clutter. Whatever it is should either be legitimately useful, or small and simple to store away. An honest, and earnest note works very well, maybe a smaller card. If you have the skills/equipment there are a few other options. E.g. I made customised slate costers for my daughter’s teachers, when she left nursery. They had the teachers face on them, with a thank you message on the back. The key was they would be legitimately useful. Keeping track of mugs is always a fun game, particularly in a teaching environment. They also didn’t have the nursery name on them, so they could be taken with them, if/when they changed jobs.
In short though, don’t worry. It will be taken in the vain you offer it in. Inspiring that response in a student is likely one of the things they love about teaching.
Chocolate is better than perfume for sure! But personally, I feel that it really doesn’t matter. It’s more about the way you give it and what you say /write along with the gift. Not knowing about anything that had gone on, I wouldn’t be worried about it being misunderstood
I have gifted teachers Cognac before. Some decent bottle of liquor if they’re into that is fine. But early 20s might not be the target audience for brown spirits.
Make sure they’re not alcoholic or a recovering one.
fidodo@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Coffee or tea
fastandcurious@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Suggestions here getting weirder and weirder ಠ_ಠ
berryjam@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Bruh, coffee or tea is way better and more appropriate than perfume. Think about it, if you gift a set of nice teabags, it’s a nice pick-me-up for your teacher to enjoy between classes
WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 months ago
Coffee and tea are so much more normal than perfume or chocolate that I can’t even. I’ve gotten coffee from a coworker before, and appreciated it. I could imagine giving tea to one if I knew they liked that. It’s safe, professional, and a crowd pleaser.
I wouldn’t even hazard a gift of perfume to my wife without some careful research first—too many ways it can be construed as “you smell” unless there is some sort of precedent such as knowing what she already wears.
This post has been gold. Thanks for sharing your struggles with us.