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• givesomefucks@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  It’s weird how often you keep making accounts for this nonsense…

  You don’t even really change it, just the same post over and over again.

  Why?

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  • Joopfart@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    What was my last account name?

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• Kolanaki@pawb.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  Making new accounts to ask the same question is never going to get you different answers than the hundred other times you asked.

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  • Joopfart@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    I don’t know what you’re talking, pal?

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• nocturne@slrpnk.net ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  Edit: comma :)

  You took the time to edit, announce that you made an edit, and all you did was add/remove a comma?

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  • Joopfart@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Pardon?

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    • nocturne@slrpnk.net ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      You proof read this post, and a comma was the only error you found?

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• disregardable@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  Well yeah, men have to approach, so most of the burden of learning to date falls on men. That means you need to figure out which girls are attracted to you and which aren’t, how to approach in a cool and casual way, how to be friendly and funny to keep them interested, how to take care of yourself so they feel attracted to you, etc. It’s tough being a young man out there. Really you should probably be talking to other guys your age about it, as they’ll best be able to critique what you’re doing wrong.

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  • just_another_person@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    This…is not true. Many women approach men. Not all, but many. Just depends on the personality.

    The reason it’s tough being a young man out there right now is because you have all these dipshit right-wing machismo assholes trying to indoctrinate young men into being complete and total pricks, as if women aren’t keeping tabs.

    Unless you are waving a white flag and doing your best to demonstrate you DO NOT subscribe to that bullshit, they want nothing to do with you.

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    • disregardable@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Maybe in some European country that’s the case, but in the American context there’s a strong presumption that the man will approach, to the point where it’s absolutely not realistic to advise men that they don’t need to learn to approach. Yes you also need to not be an asshole, and that’s important, but if you don’t start talking to women in the first place, they can’t know you’re an asshole or not.

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• just_another_person@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  Personality and the person matters. Not much else out side of the basics of physical attraction.

  • Be a good person
  • Be good to your partner
  • Be good to others
  • LISTEN
  • Try to be fun to be around, meaning don’t be a dick downer all the time
  • Take interest in your partner and their wants/needs

  None of that stuff requires you be tall, have a big dick, or tons of money. If that’s all someone wants from you, you do not want to be with that person.

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• bear@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  What have you tried so far to find a date?

  They don’t typical fall in your lap.

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