I just realized there is not really a for "cuddling" in Chinese Languages... probably a reflection of the lack of Public Display of Affection in Chinese Culture...

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• Onomatopoeia@lemmy.cafe ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  I dunno, I’ve never cuddled anyone in public.

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  • DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    No I mean like…

    I never saw my parents hug… never saw them kiss… not even at home.

    Don’t think they even have sex, I suspect the only two times they ever fucked was to procreate… to create my brother and me.

    Literally their room is open and I could just walk in, and as a kid I go sleep in their bed a lot.

    So no, they didn’t have sex, because if they did, I would’ve had accidentally barged in and saw it.

    Maybe this is why they argue a lot lol, lack of sex…

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    • northernlights@lemmy.today ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Yeah when my Chinese ex-wife and I moved to France, she was astonished to see my parents hug and kiss.

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    • Gonzako@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Is this something you can talk your parents about? They’re kinda the only ones that can answer why

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• Fokeu@lemmy.zip ⁨15⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Why would other languages need an equivalent of a specific word from your language?

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  • DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works ⁨14⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Cantonese and Mandarin are my languages. It’s what I speak at home… so lacking these words make it hard to exptess my thoughts to my parents whose primary languages are Cantonese and Mandarin. Mom speaks English but doesn’t really know any vocabulary unrelated to like everyday life stuff and doing business, money related words…

    My native languges are Cantonese and Mandarin, but my primary language is English since that’s just what everyone speaks here in the US and its the langua franca of the internet… so most thoughts can only expressed in English… so now I realize that some ideas can’t even be translated even if I tried…

    So yeah… its kina weird to be in an immigrant family… having language barriers with your own parents… I struggle to have like a “deeper connection” with them.

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    • Fokeu@lemmy.zip ⁨13⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Oh, okay. I assumed that you are one of those self entitled English native speakers who think that they are more important than the others just because English is Lingua Franca lol. I use English and Polish everyday and a bit of Japanese and there are in fact words that cannot be literally translated, but it was never that big of an issue for me. It might be an issue for immigrants, I don’t really know :/

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• coherent_domain@infosec.pub ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  抱抱 is more “cuddle” than “hug”.

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• Yaky@slrpnk.net ⁨19⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  I don’t think it’s necessarily reflective of culture, but just the language never formed a word for it. E.g. in Ukrainian and Russian, hugs are generally considered more intimate, so expression describing cuddling would be “laying down hugging”.

  On same note, Ukrainian and Russian has a word “тискати”/“тискать”, which (informally) means to squeeze affectionately (usually partners, babies, or pets, similar to “cute aggression” concept in US English). Doesn’t mean that speakers of other languages don’t do the same thing, there is just not a single word for it.

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  • DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works ⁨14⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Btw, the word “propaganda” also doesn’t really exist in Chinese.

    Like you have 宣传 (to publicize, to announce), but this word lacks the connotation of “propaganda”.

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• Takapapatapaka@tarte.nuage-libre.fr ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  What’s the difference between hug and cuddle? My frenchie ass always thought they were the same

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  • ieGod@lemmy.zip ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Typically something you do lying down, or sitting. All of these are cuddling: Image

    Hugs can be a part of cuddling, but cuddling is more than a hug.

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  • FishFace@piefed.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Cuddling takes longer than hugging, it’s like an extended hug. The -le suffix in English is often frequentative, so sparkle meant “to emit many sparks”, for example.

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    • troglodyte_mignon@tarte.nuage-libre.fr ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      frequentative

      Thanks to your comment, I learned about the -le prefix and unlocked a new word. I’m going to bed satisfied. :)

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    • Randelung@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      TIL

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