Comment on Is it weird for parents to keep saying "I love you", then asks "Do you love me?"
Sanctus@anarchist.nexus 1 week ago
Homie I have been seeing you make posts like this for months and I gotta say its not normal and I am sorry. I dont ask me kids that shit. I tell them that I love them and pelt them with kisses whether they like it or not because I won’t be alive forever and I want them to know. Kids dont get the gravity of that and they shouldn’t have to.
DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
I mean sorry if I keep making these weird posts… but like its better than keeping thoughts in my head… bottling up everything only makes it worse…
The thing with internet is that you can vent any time you want… seeking professional help takes time, like they’re not on call 24/7 to listen to you…
Sometimes I wish they created an actual AI (like an actual Artificial General Intelligence, not those LLM shit) for you to talk to.
Sometimes I wish I could visit an alternate timeline where that version of my self “figured it out”… so maybe I could ask him for advice…
Sanctus@anarchist.nexus 1 week ago
Keep posting. I just want you to know that what you are being put through is not normal. You’re not supposed to hang your insecurities on your child. Nobody has it “figured out”, some people are just in a good place for them and some not and that can change in an instant.
BreadOven@lemmy.world 1 week ago
Ask away. Talking about this stuff is usually a good thing. If anyone doesn’t like it, they can go elsewhere.
Apytele@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
!DIYMentalHealth@lemmy.dbzer0.com
I’m not done with it but…
protist@retrofed.com 1 week ago
Quick question for you…what is it you need to “figure out?”