Comment on 40% of teenage boys believe women lie about domestic and sexual violence: new research

• NaibofTabr@infosec.pub ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  People who are treated like outcasts behave like outcasts.

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  • UnspecificGravity@piefed.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Its not anyone else’s job to fix you.

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    • NaibofTabr@infosec.pub ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      It is not any one individual’s responsibility to fix any other particular individual, true.

      Rather, it is the community’s responsibility to care for the community. All of the community.

      If you start declaring some members of the community to be undeserving of care, then you are no better than the fascists.

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    • Narauko@lemmy.world ⁨22⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      There’s an old saying: “the child who does not receive the warmth of the village will burn it down to feel warm.”

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    • CTDummy@piefed.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      How very American of you.

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      • Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        I agree with the statement, but add, without a proper support system, its impossible to do the inner work for yourself. We need external support, and we have to try for ourselves.

        The whole, lead a horse to water but you cant make them drink. Dont mean we shouldnt still help em get to the water.

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    • nodiratime@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      The absolute audacity to vilify people/put them on blast constantly (bonus points for single mothers and having worse raising outcomes than single dads e.g.) and then act all high and mightly and demanding they “pull themselves up by their boostraps”.

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• Fleur_@aussie.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  If you didn’t think I was already a moron why would you call me one? Are you really incapable of seeing how difficult it is for me to engage constructively with your argument while you are constantly interweaving it with personal attacks? I couldn’t ask for a better example of how calling people dumb makes it hard for them to engage with their ideas. Again, no wonder young men with no experience are being entrapped by the far right.

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  • UnspecificGravity@piefed.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Yes, this is a stupid post because it was made by a person that was called a moron, not because it was made by a person that is actually a moron.

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    • Fleur_@aussie.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      What are you even talking about mate?

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      • wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        I think they were projecting a lil

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    • Cypher@aussie.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Yes, this is a stupid post

      I gotta respect the self report

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