Madzielle
@Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com
- Comment on Oh lord yes 2 weeks ago:
Youre so mean
- Comment on Oh lord yes 2 weeks ago:
I was such an asshole after I dropped 100 pounds in my 20s. I did it, you can too!
I was such a dick. I had actual anger towards fat folks for a few years.
Its like being mad folks are poor, just, knock it off. None of these comments actually help people lose weight. It actually scares them off further into the downward spiral. Lest not forget age gets us all, and you dont know what these people have been through, or are going through. You dont know.
My country, the shit stain one, they dont allow citizens to walk anywhere. Start there. I stayed fit when I could walk/bike places. Once I moved somewhere carcentric, guess what happened. Im not a dick to fat folks anymore.
Its not so black and white. The older I get, the more I realize its systemic, at least here in the god forsaken states.
remain positive, internal work is internal, and you cant make choicss for others. I wanted to give fitness to everyone when I was younger. But not everyone is brave enough to ride a bike in car city. I still get mad when I see parents giving their fat children candy. Sets them up for a lifetine of failure. I used to have my gaurdian lock me in a room, call me fat bitch, and literally throw a bag of mcdonalds at me in my teens.
you never know what someone has been through. Always kindness.
- Comment on The long winter is over! Bath day! 1 month ago:
I use soil that gives me gnats! haha
I just use simple garden bed soil tbh with some fish fertilizer in summers. Ive just put these out to get rain, today I will arrange them on the covered porch for their summer life and hand water them again.
Good note though, dont leave em on the ground, slugs… truly would be aweful! Ive downsized since last year, quite a bit, so Id not like to lose what is left!
- Comment on The long winter is over! Bath day! 1 month ago:
oh I got bugs consistantly, mainly them gnat bitches.
Everyone gets treated before the fall time bring in, but yeah, my dirty secret is I always have some gnat infestation, controlled, but present. Slugs would be aweful! oh no! that sounds aweful to deal with, im guessing the boiling water did the trick? sucks you lost all your plants, I would have been devistated, im so sorry :(
- Comment on The long winter is over! Bath day! 1 month ago:
I had to scan it because I forgot. It says mistletoe cactus!
it likes water a bit, and part shade.
- Submitted 1 month ago to houseplants@mander.xyz | 7 comments