And that everyone’s too damn poor. Babysitter? Not on average wages! No one wants to give up all of their time and money for kids they might not be able to provide for.
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Modern_medicine_isnt@lemmy.world 9 hours ago
There is a reason for declining child birth numbers… it has everything to do with more people knowing what they are really getting into.
MotoAsh@lemmy.world 8 hours ago
Pacattack57@lemmy.world 7 hours ago
There are people giving 100% of their paychecks for childcare and the spouse pays for everything else.
That is a failure of the US and birth rates won’t improve until that changes.
outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 hours ago
won’t improve
Nothing wrong with current birth rates, just the reasons for them.
I think you meant
won’t increase
Pacattack57@lemmy.world 6 hours ago
Low both rates deplete the workforce in the long term. Creates issues where tax revenue is low and cost of social programs and healthcare are extremely high because there are so many people at retirement age and beyond. Birth rates at a minimum should be stagnant.
bunchberry@lemmy.world 6 hours ago
Well if there was public daycare to take the stress off of parents who couldn’t deal with it then it wouldn’t be as big of an issue.
grindemup@lemmy.world 3 hours ago
I don’t really follow your train of thought. People would have been just as aware (if not more, due to the prevalence of multigenerational households) of this in the past as they are now, no?
Modern_medicine_isnt@lemmy.world 1 hour ago
In the past people didn’t have access to a device with endless information about how rough it is the raise kids. Instead they had other local parents as a source, and those parents just wanted company in thier misery.
echodot@feddit.uk 1 minute ago
When I was a kid we used to just get thrown outside along with all the other kids and told not to come back until lunch time.
We used to get up to all sorts no one cared. At one point someone’s dad took us all to the beach which was about an hour away, we all just got in this strangers car (never met him before) and went to the beach. I don’t remember my parents been even remotely bothered by that when they found out.
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 59 minutes ago
Yeah we had to raise our siblings. Ain’t raising another generation without being paid for it. It’s why we work in education.