Comment on Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?

• protist@mander.xyz ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  There you go, if your reason for going out with him is to be friends, communicate that

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  • arumi@endlesstalk.org ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I don’t want to assume things, i thought it’s a date but I wasn’t sure. I have all reasons to believe it’s not a date unless he specifically mentions it. He only said if i am free on Saturday, let’s grab lunch

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    • CallMeAnAI@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      No. You’re being a poor communicator. Here and with this man. A date not explicitly being called a date is very common, you have made assumptions with this, and seem to be pushing back on most folks saying you need to communicate better. Read the room and realize you’re inexperienced.

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      • arumi@endlesstalk.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        So should I just ask him directly that why is he asking me to hangout with him one on one? What are his intentions? Will he not be offended?

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    • protist@mander.xyz ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      I don’t think that at all, I have great friends of both genders. My point is you need to communicate with him, because you came in here thinking it was probably a date and asking us whether he wanted to sleep with you.

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      • arumi@endlesstalk.org ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        I came here to get advice. Isn’t that what people do in such platforms?

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