Comment on Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?

• null@lemmy.nullspace.lol ⁨17⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  So should I just ask him directly that why is he asking me to hangout with him one on one?

  Literally yes.

  Will he not be offended?

  If he’s offended by open, clear communication, that’s a good sign you shouldn’t continue trying to be friends anyways.

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  • arumi@endlesstalk.org ⁨17⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Why should I not continue being friends with him and only meet on social occasions where our other mutual friends are also present, just like the old times? Breaking up a friendship over nothing?

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    • naught101@lemmy.world ⁨17⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      I would say someone getting offended by you communicating is not “nothing”. At least it would be a problem for me.

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      • arumi@endlesstalk.org ⁨17⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        Makes sense. I’ll try to communicate it with him respectfully

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    • null@lemmy.nullspace.lol ⁨16⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Him being offended enough for it to be a problem by you asking a clear, good faith question isn’t “over nothing”.

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• Crazyslinkz@lemmy.world ⁨18⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Yes. Clear communication is important.

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• CallMeAnAI@lemmy.world ⁨17⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Correct. He may react in any number of ways and you cannot control that. A normal healthy reaction will be an open conversation. They also might call you a bitch. They might react cool now only to try again in 2 weeks. This is part of dating unfortunately.

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  • arumi@endlesstalk.org ⁨17⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Very sad and bad situation

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    • CallMeAnAI@lemmy.world ⁨17⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Yours? No, it’s not sad at all. Learning to communicate is a necessity.

      The fact that many people are immature assholes, sure, a bit sad.

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      • arumi@endlesstalk.org ⁨17⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        Are you calling me immature asshole?😳

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