arumi

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• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Yes Asian culture is very different from European

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I have anxious attachment problem so I don’t get into relationships until I am absolutely sure

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Is it okay to call it a relationship if it’s only two months? Wouldn’t it be like some fwb thing right?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Thank you🥺

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Tell me no woman talks to you without telling me no woman talks to you

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I want to lose my virginity to a long term partner. I maybe attracted to him but i am not going to lose it in a one night stand

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Thank you

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• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Thank you 😊 you’re very kind

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Even if it doesn’t last, i would prefer it over losing it in a one night stand. Hope that helps

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I understand

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I hope what you’re saying is true

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Are you calling me immature asshole?😳

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Makes sense. I’ll try to communicate it with him respectfully

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Very sad and bad situation

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Why should I not continue being friends with him and only meet on social occasions where our other mutual friends are also present, just like the old times? Breaking up a friendship over nothing?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  He’s paying for every date even when I offer to split. I even mentioned I am not looking for dating in my current city because I am moving, but he still asked me out on another and also asked about the places I would like to go, he would take me.

  If he’s not looking for a romantic partner, which I mentioned in the post he’s not. Why would he bother doing all this? Just for a friend?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I am pretty sure about the sex part and I don’t have any desires to do it with him even if I find him attractive. I would only feel aroused if I have romantic feelings for him so I don’t think he can change that

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I have clearly mentioned in the post that I don’t want to sleep with him, I am a virgin and want to save my first time for a long term relationship

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  He never asked for a reason. Bringing it up myself out of nowhere would make him think I am narcissistic who assumed he’s in love with me. Or maybe I am just overthinking

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Thank you very much! He never asked me to go on a trip with him and honestly I would say no if he did. He offered to pay but I offered to split the bill. When he refused, I bought dessert for both of us, I hope that made it atleast subtle that I am not trying to use him for his money, in any way

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  So should I just ask him directly that why is he asking me to hangout with him one on one? What are his intentions? Will he not be offended?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I totally understand your point!! But in the past, it has happened quite often with my Japanese friends that they assumed I am giving them hint that I want to sleep with them, only because I gave them a goodbye hug. All of these guys were closer to my age. But I do that to all of my friends from every nationality regardless of gender. I stopped doing that with any japanese friends tho, including this guy, I just shaked his hand and said goodbye.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Thank you very much for providing such a detailed and thorough explanation using your own insights as a man !😊😊

  To answer your question, he maintained his physical boundaries with me in the entire duration. And after the hangout was over, he told me that my eyes looked beautiful today, he wants to hangout with me again. On the same day he asked if I am done with work and I told him I am very tired after coming back so he said he would have given me a shoulder massager if I was with him at the moment. So I only said I appreciate it.

  After that we haven’t exchanged any text messages

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I came here to get advice. Isn’t that what people do in such platforms?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I don’t want to assume things, i thought it’s a date but I wasn’t sure. I have all reasons to believe it’s not a date unless he specifically mentions it. He only said if i am free on Saturday, let’s grab lunch

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  He never explicitly mentioned it’s a date, I didn’t see a reason of saying no to meet as friends

• Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?
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