arumi
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- Comment on Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me? 11 hours ago:
Thank you
- Comment on Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me? 12 hours ago:
Thank you 😊 you’re very kind
- Comment on Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me? 12 hours ago:
Even if it doesn’t last, i would prefer it over losing it in a one night stand. Hope that helps
- Comment on Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me? 12 hours ago:
I understand
- Comment on Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me? 12 hours ago:
I hope what you’re saying is true
- Comment on Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me? 13 hours ago:
Are you calling me immature asshole?😳
- Comment on Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me? 13 hours ago:
Makes sense. I’ll try to communicate it with him respectfully
- Comment on Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me? 13 hours ago:
Very sad and bad situation
- Comment on Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me? 13 hours ago:
Why should I not continue being friends with him and only meet on social occasions where our other mutual friends are also present, just like the old times? Breaking up a friendship over nothing?
- Comment on Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me? 13 hours ago:
He’s paying for every date even when I offer to split. I even mentioned I am not looking for dating in my current city because I am moving, but he still asked me out on another and also asked about the places I would like to go, he would take me.
If he’s not looking for a romantic partner, which I mentioned in the post he’s not. Why would he bother doing all this? Just for a friend?
- Comment on Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me? 14 hours ago:
I am pretty sure about the sex part and I don’t have any desires to do it with him even if I find him attractive. I would only feel aroused if I have romantic feelings for him so I don’t think he can change that
- Comment on Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me? 14 hours ago:
I have clearly mentioned in the post that I don’t want to sleep with him, I am a virgin and want to save my first time for a long term relationship
- Comment on Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me? 15 hours ago:
He never asked for a reason. Bringing it up myself out of nowhere would make him think I am narcissistic who assumed he’s in love with me. Or maybe I am just overthinking
- Comment on Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me? 15 hours ago:
Thank you very much! He never asked me to go on a trip with him and honestly I would say no if he did. He offered to pay but I offered to split the bill. When he refused, I bought dessert for both of us, I hope that made it atleast subtle that I am not trying to use him for his money, in any way
- Comment on Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me? 15 hours ago:
So should I just ask him directly that why is he asking me to hangout with him one on one? What are his intentions? Will he not be offended?
- Comment on Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me? 15 hours ago:
I totally understand your point!! But in the past, it has happened quite often with my Japanese friends that they assumed I am giving them hint that I want to sleep with them, only because I gave them a goodbye hug. All of these guys were closer to my age. But I do that to all of my friends from every nationality regardless of gender. I stopped doing that with any japanese friends tho, including this guy, I just shaked his hand and said goodbye.
- Comment on Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me? 15 hours ago:
Thank you very much for providing such a detailed and thorough explanation using your own insights as a man !😊😊
To answer your question, he maintained his physical boundaries with me in the entire duration. And after the hangout was over, he told me that my eyes looked beautiful today, he wants to hangout with me again. On the same day he asked if I am done with work and I told him I am very tired after coming back so he said he would have given me a shoulder massager if I was with him at the moment. So I only said I appreciate it.
After that we haven’t exchanged any text messages
- Comment on Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me? 16 hours ago:
I came here to get advice. Isn’t that what people do in such platforms?
- Comment on Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me? 16 hours ago:
I don’t want to assume things, i thought it’s a date but I wasn’t sure. I have all reasons to believe it’s not a date unless he specifically mentions it. He only said if i am free on Saturday, let’s grab lunch
- Comment on Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me? 16 hours ago:
He never explicitly mentioned it’s a date, I didn’t see a reason of saying no to meet as friends
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