What are you basing the majority of men are shit on? Confirmation bias?
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wizbiz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 months ago
Lots of men in this thread real upset about this app pointing out how the majority men are shit
GaMEChld@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Dearth@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Well im a man. And most men i interact with are casually misandrist, ableist and homophobic. I can’t imagine they behave any better when they’re trying to fuck you
GaMEChld@lemmy.world 8 months ago
So confirmation bias. Gotcha. That’s generally not a great way to make sweeping generalizations about 50% of the population.
You ever hear that adage about smelling shit wherever you go, maybe check your shoes?
lmagitem@lemmy.zip 8 months ago
I’m a man too and I don’t know any guy like that. Maybe the problem is in who you choose to spend time with?
ThrowawayPermanente@sh.itjust.works 8 months ago
Oh come on, you know how Those People are
echodot@feddit.uk 8 months ago
Citation of course needed with that one.
The only people who will be listed on the app are people who are either deserving they’ve been on there or people who don’t deserve to be on there but some woman in their lives has decided to inact some vengeance justified or otherwise.
ZombieMantis@lemmy.world 8 months ago
It’s an antisocial surveillance system for antisocial people, and creates a(n even more) antagonistic relationship between men and women.
Dating apps have been a disaster for dating, and this is perhaps the worst among them.
ConstantPain@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Defaming people without giving them a chance to defend themselves, talk about shit people…
nickwitha_k@lemmy.sdf.org 8 months ago
On one hand, yes. On the other, women have, based upon crime statistics, legitimate reasons to avoid putting themselves in a situation where they may be assaulted or murdered for reporting problematic and/or worrisome behavior.
ConstantPain@lemmy.world 8 months ago
I don’t think creating an incel style circlejerk is the best solution.
nickwitha_k@lemmy.sdf.org 8 months ago
I agree. Some sort of solution is necessary but this probably isn’t it.
wizbiz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 months ago
It’s not defamation if it’s true
postmateDumbass@lemmy.world 8 months ago
And its legally actionable libel/slander if false.
Soulg@ani.social 8 months ago
But have you considered man bad?
SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Lots of misandrists in this thread framing security failures as sexism against men