While the joke is indisputably funny, it’s important to remind everyone that it’s still a harmful stereotype. Bi/pan erasure is a genuine problem. You don’t stop being bi/pan simply because you enter a monogamous relationship.
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UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 10 months ago
You are only bisexual if you are engaged in sex with two people of the opposite sex simultaneously.
Otherwise, you’re just Schrodinger’s Gay.
BlameTheAntifa@lemmy.world 10 months ago
UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 10 months ago
More seriously, I think erasure is only part of it. Lots of LGBTQ folks deliberately remain in the closet for the sake of family relationships, careers, and local politics.
If you’re bi, it’s just easier.
But that heterosexual camouflage does get confusing to process when you “come out”. Especially with the reactionary attitude that heterosexuality is a choice.
makyo@lemmy.world 10 months ago
So there’s a Schrodinger’s Gay in every threesome
UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 10 months ago
At least one.
rob_t_firefly@lemmy.world 10 months ago
“Ohh yeah baby, collapse my wave function…”
Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 10 months ago
i like being observed, interact with me to measure my state please
sundray@lemmus.org 10 months ago
Position? But I wanted to measure velocity tonight!
Ziglin@lemmy.world 10 months ago
And now they’re gone, quite slowly though.
eager_eagle@lemmy.world 10 months ago
two people of opposite sex*, otherwise it’s just a straight threesome
Ziglin@lemmy.world 10 months ago
How does a straight threesome work? (I suppose every participant could be straight but it seems like two might be weirded out by eachother, no?)
eager_eagle@lemmy.world 10 months ago
it’s like a proxy connection, the client and remote server both interact with the proxy server, but they don’t interact directly with each other
bdonvr@thelemmy.club 10 months ago
But you cease to be bi afterwards, you were just experimenting.
WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 months ago
I am bisexual then.