Comment on Are mood problems a “turn off” for people even when they’re hard to manage?

• GBU_28@lemm.ee ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  The lack of understanding that indeed, you may struggle to control it, BUT YOU’RE STILL RESPONSIBLE FOR IT

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  • CatDemons4@lemmings.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    But they DESERVE ITTTT 😣

    As a sports fan, I hate when people are bad at things. Why even try if you suck, honestly?

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    • GBU_28@lemm.ee ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Loser talk. Do you see the masturbatory way you are reveling in these negative responses? Will you acknowledge you are dwelling in hyper negativity, seemingly for the lulz?

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    • dnick@sh.itjust.works ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      If you don’t understand why people do something even if they ‘suck’ at it, then you’re asking others to do something you’re not willing to do yourself.

      If you were being physically abusive and couldn’t help it, would you still think they should accept that as just ‘you being you’? Would you accept it? You are verbally abusive when you don’t like something, perhaps even if they can’t help it… They practice passive avoidance if they don’t like something.

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    • Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Maybe some people didn’t care of they win and play games to HAVE FUN. Telling them they suck, will probably make that less fun.

      Also, everybody sucks when they first try. By continuing to try they get better. If you refuse to do anything that you aren’t naturally good at, you are a coward.

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      • CatDemons4@lemmings.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        It just makes me so mad, like I said, I can’t control it too well. And that’s not so true, I was good at basketball AND volleyball on the first try.

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    • sp3tr4l@lemmy.zip ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Because the way to improve skills, athleticism, ability to play an instrument, basically anything…

      Is practice.

      Training.

      Sure, some people are naturally better or worse at certain things than others.

      Not everyone will turn out equally better given the same amount and style of training.

      But all of the initial different starting aptitudes at a certain skill vanish into meaninglessness against a person who consistently trains and practices, that person will be considerably more talented than any ‘natural’, 99% of the time.

      Also… some people, most people do things because they enjoy doing them.

      Not because they need or want to be better than others.

      If your goal is to have fun, develop a skill, stay in shape, have fun… you’re always winning, even if you aren’t literally the best.

      … And if you do try to always be the literal best… there’s almost always someone better if you keeo advancing into higher skilled competition levels and even if you are truly the best… you won’t be forever. You’ll get an injury, make a mistake, or just get old.

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      • CatDemons4@lemmings.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        I bet they don’t practice 😂

        They need to and still suck. I practice just like they “practice”. I don’t practice often, but I’m still better.

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    • AuroraGlamour@lemmy.ml ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Also, wanted to say this, why do you care about having competition so much? If you were truly better than everyone else, you wouldn’t have competition.

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