AFallingAnvil
@AFallingAnvil@lemmy.ca
- Comment on For fellow Lemmy users who play Project Zomboid. 2 weeks ago:
I never knew I could respect someone and still hope they seek therapy in such equally strong amounts
- Comment on Caption this. 3 weeks ago:
Fishing for bright ideas
- Comment on How are you really doing? 3 weeks ago:
That’s reassuring, thank you. She has agreed to do a couple sessions of couples therapy with me after we move in to help establish a solid foundation for living together and get used to communication before there’s anything stressful to communicate about.
She’s coming from a household with pretty garbage communication styles so I’m hoping it helps her reset so to speak and get a fresh start.
- Comment on Great Advertise 4 weeks ago:
I mean, the chance is never zero but it’s gotta be damn close
- Comment on How are you really doing? 4 weeks ago:
A bit nervous. I bought a house with my long distance girlfriend of two years, we move in this coming Friday. We had multiple visits (some months long), and the house is like 92% in my name with an exit strategy for me to buy her out if we split so I’m not jumping in blindly or anything but I was ready to try something more serious.
I should be happy and excited, I worked damn hard and saved for years but I’m mostly just worried that since we both work from home it’ll be too much of a good thing. I’m assuming it’s mostly the stress of getting the house and all the paperwork and crap but it’s still an important worry to work through. I hope you guys are hanging in there, all the best.
- Comment on Pattern Recognition 4 weeks ago:
This must be some deep cut I’m not weeb enough to ger
- Comment on Cheat Codes Activated 5 weeks ago:
There’s a reason the dude has to have quick reference for his name
- Comment on The european mind can't comprehend this 5 weeks ago:
I’m gonna go out on a limb and say some fat people my surprise you with their strength. They throw around more weight quite often, it’s stamina that’s lacking. A single, forceful attack is believable to me.
- Comment on mentoring 5 weeks ago:
Excellently put, bravo
- Comment on I feel like it was on purpose 5 weeks ago:
We didn’t start the fire comes to mind. Things have always been crazy, welcome to life since the dawn of society as we know it.
- Comment on I feel like it was on purpose 5 weeks ago:
A young salmon swims downriver searching for an ocean he has never seen. Eventually the riverbanks give way to a vast blue expanse. He approaches the first fish he sees and asks them where he might find the ocean. The other fish replies “You’re in it!” The salmon shakes his head. “This? This is water. I’m looking for the ocean!”
The character building and customization never ends, but it’s also not something that has to be a burden. The way school and such introduces things like reading and learning or physical activity is sometimes very damaging because it gives you this impression that these things have to be work, that it’s all about deadlines and what you can get out of them instead of enjoying them for the sake of the thing.
Suffice it to say if you’re waiting to one day start your life and become who you want to be you’re missing the point. The journey is supposed to be the focus, don’t wait to start living for some lofty time you’re allowed to begin building the life you want. Start the journey for it now and find passions to savor along the way. Life doesn’t begin at 20, 30, or even 40, you just get different content so you might as well make the most of the fleeting window to enjoy the things that make life at your age special.
A long ramble, but I hope it conveys my point. Good luck!
- Comment on $1 per play 5 weeks ago:
Don’t forget the lifestyle of being hit with a steel chair doesn’t do wonders for aging gracefully
- Comment on They're completely serious 5 weeks ago:
Not gonna lie, I was assuming even the picture was made up/AI bullshit. Bit of egg on my face there
- Comment on They're completely serious 5 weeks ago:
No clear evolutionary path in the fossil record.
…for the creatures that have no bones and only a beak that could even fossilize? Color me SHOCKED their ancestors didn’t leave fossils.
- Comment on Tomb Raider video game composer jailed for Covid loan fraud 5 weeks ago:
We’ll have to give him a moment to compose himself after that one
- Comment on Day 364 of posting a Daily Screenshot from the games I've been playing 1 month ago:
Just wanted to say it’s impressive as hell that you kept this up so long, I’ve enjoyed following along where I can and offering my two cents :)
- Comment on I plead the 25th 1 month ago:
This crop is outstanding in its field
- Comment on devinetly organic... 2 months ago:
No, that would be an orgy, Oregano is something cultivated involving the use of fertilizers or pesticides that are strictly of animal or vegetable origin.
- Comment on I am not a builder… but that does not seem right 2 months ago:
See? That’s the spirit! I’m glad you seem to be finding your groove without too much suffering.
- Comment on I am not a builder… but that does not seem right 2 months ago:
Just think of all the things you can do without ever consulting someone else. Single has its perks!
- Comment on Low quality cropping will officially launch on Lemmy in 2025 3 months ago:
Sir this is a highly confused Wendys…
- Comment on Choosing pink is chaotic evil? 7 months ago:
As a student of history, it’s definitely possible and indeed a not insignificant number of people did just that.
- Comment on Old fashioned 7 months ago:
Aye aye captain o7
- Comment on Literature reviews be like 8 months ago:
Women will do this exclusively with pillows and not see a problem
- Comment on vultures 9 months ago:
Haha, so true!
- Comment on KING COLEOPTERA 9 months ago:
I’m a lazy person, which kind of explains a lot now that I think about it
- Comment on KING COLEOPTERA 9 months ago:
So it’s wrong for me to test God but when he tests me I’m just supposed to be cool with it? Fuck that
- Comment on Day -10 of posting a screenshot from a game I've been playing until I also forget to post screenshots 10 months ago:
Yep. Lots of “Plot” to appreciate here
- Comment on space 10 months ago:
The final frontier…