spicytuna62
@spicytuna62@lemmy.world
- Comment on This is heresy but lol 4 days ago:
Came here to say essentially this lol Lars is a pretty mid drummer. It’s kinda hilarious that he gets to be in a band with Kirk Hammett.
- Comment on Why don't they just take the alt route? 6 days ago:
HormUwUz
- Comment on Why don't they just take the alt route? 1 week ago:
Ironic, ain’t it?
- Submitted 1 week ago to [deleted] | 33 comments
- Comment on Cursed image thread 1 week ago:
- Comment on [deleted] 1 week ago:
I do hate the double standard that it’s totally fine for men to joke and talk about sex, but when a woman does it, she must be dirty in some way. I get that biologically, women have had to be more choosy with partners because for a long time, the best protection was zero insertion, or the chances of ending up with a child you didn’t want were nonzero. Things are different now. We have the pill. We have emergency contraceptives. Some of us even have access to abortions.
Sex isn’t dirty. It’s normal and natural to want it. It’s normal to have a hard time getting it. It’s normal to be frustrated by the dating field and navigating relationships. It’s normal to feel incredibly rewarded when you do get it. And it’s normal to want to blow off steam by talking to people closest to you about your successes and failures in life. And a big part of being human is one’s own sexual exploits.
One of my closest friends is a woman about 13 years older than me (I’m 33; she’s 46), and she’s going through menopause right now. And she’ll start talking about the difficulty it’s bringing her, and she’ll tell me, “You don’t wanna hear about all this,” or, “I know you don’t care about this.” And the truth is that I do not nor could I ever understand what she’s going through, but as a friend, I can listen to her complain about it and give her the space to vent. Even if I’ll never get it, I can just be a voice in the room to pull out some great hits like:
- “Jeeeesus, I’m so sorry,”
- “Yikes, that sucks,” or
- "Haha, Fuck. That."
As a man, I don’t always have follow up questions or advice to offer someone going through issues unique to women. But people aren’t always looking for advice. Sometimes, it’s just nice to have the space to blow off steam with a safe person.
And that’s not dirty. It’s something we all do.
- Comment on Simple, Stupid, and it always works 1 week ago:
I’m so happy we moved away from this and toward three basic questions:
- Where do you want it?
- How hot do you want it?
- How hard do you want it?
- Comment on JPEG is pronounced Jay-Fegg 1 week ago:
What some call “compression artifacts,” I call “extra crunchy.”
- Comment on JPEG is pronounced Jay-Fegg 1 week ago:
Meanwhile, men of culture:
- Submitted 1 week ago to [deleted] | 3 comments
- Comment on Operation Mar-Kwane 2 weeks ago:
Can’t wait to see where he’ll be hiding next time shit hits the fan. Fuck this redneck asshole with a long, dry, splintery pole. I’ve voted against this wad every time I could, but I’m heavily outnumbered here.
- Comment on Rabbit holes, girl; have you never heard of them? 3 weeks ago:
My wife thinks I’m the smartest man she has ever known. Meanwhile, I’m slapping my own head going, “This baby can fit so many Wikipedia articles in it.”
- Comment on _uck _e _n the a__ ton_ght 3 weeks ago:
Duck be on the ark tonight?
- Comment on No you don't sit on it. In the olden days people used this to make orange juice 3 weeks ago:
But hey, anal juice is also pretty good.
- Comment on After the 6th payment the burrito is mine 💀💀💀 3 weeks ago:
Replace “token” with “title” and “monkey” with “car,” and you’ve got a formula most people understand.
I own the title, but I don’t own the car.
Unlike the monkey, you can go find the car in the real world.
- Comment on [deleted] 4 weeks ago:
Aw man, I loved their last album. I never realized they released another. I was listening to The Scholars by Car Seat Headrest for a good portion of last year.
- Comment on Epstein arrests: 0. Nancy Guthrie: still missing. The head of the FBI: 4 weeks ago:
I hear it tastes pretty good, too.
- Submitted 4 weeks ago to [deleted] | 24 comments
- Comment on [deleted] 4 weeks ago:
Your genetic data, your husband’s genetic data, and your future kids’ genetic data. They’re playing the long con on that one.
- Comment on An emotional rollercoaster 1 month ago:
If I got to say, “Oh thank fuck I made it,” I’d be relieved, too.
- Comment on If only 2 months ago:
Joke’s on all of y’all. I still burn CDs. My car has a four disc CD changer.
- Comment on You never know who you're arguing with 2 months ago:
If you were my child, I’d have picked you up from school four hours early and taken you out for ice cream.
- Comment on always watching 2 months ago:
If he didn’t want me touching it, he shouldn’t have given it to me. Kinda his fault I whack it.
- Comment on Help is needed 2 months ago:
That flew over my head at first, but holy shit, that’s clever.
- Comment on Help is needed 2 months ago:
Modest House?
- Comment on Help is needed 2 months ago:
HELL YEAH, BRÖTHER.
- Comment on Fare thee well 2 months ago:
- Comment on here is 4kb of christmas joy for you 3 months ago:
Still too bloated. My hard limit is 950 bytes.
- Comment on The Cellussy 3 months ago:
Cleavage, dude.
- Comment on Piano man 3 months ago:
Piano-man, piano-man. Does whatever a piano can. Falls on crooks from real high. Squishes them. Kills those guys.
Look out. He is the piano-man
