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If I had a time machine I would go back in time and give all my friends their mental health diagnosis before they had to live through the really tough parts.

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Submitted ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩ by ⁨Daft_ish@lemmy.dbzer0.com⁩ to ⁨showerthoughts@lemmy.world⁩

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  • GalacticSushi@piefed.blahaj.zone ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    “Hey, buddy. Just so you know, you’re autistic.”

    “What? Hey, fuck you. That was uncalled for.”

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    • Daft_ish@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Doing gods work

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  • slazer2au@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    But would medical professionals accept your claim to get the support they require?

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    • UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Me: “Just FYI, you’ve got undiagnosed ADHD.”

      Friend 1: “Wow, what can I do about this?”

      Me: “You’re too poor to access mental health care, and most professionals haven’t accepted this as a diagnosis for your racial/gender cohort. So, unfortunately, there’s nothing to be done.”

      Friend 2: “What about me?”

      Me: “You’re transgender.”

      Friend 2: “What the fuck did you just call me?!”

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      • Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        “I think he called you a trains gender. Are you related to Thomas the Train?”

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    • Daft_ish@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Im just talking about the people I know now where they are a lot more comfortable because they contextualize what happened.

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  • Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Do you think any of them would listen? I believe in your quest because I personally have friends, myself included, that would have benefitted from this service. I just wonder if some guy came to me and said he was my friend from the future and that I needed evaluated, if I would take it seriously at all.

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    • Hackworth@piefed.ca ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      I largely agree with Siddhartha that wisdom can only be gained through experience. I just think of all the times I knew something intellectually but didn’t understand it sufficiently to properly act on it until I lived it. But there is a more fun corollary from Zen Without Zen Masters, “If you think you can get beyond pleasure without going through it, we are definitely on different trips.”

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      • Daft_ish@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        Wisdom also teaches us that learned knowledge can be as beneficial as wisdom. This is what allows society to advance.

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    • Daft_ish@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Well, it would at least be the best i golf you so ever.

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  • UpperBroccoli@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    I’d tell my best friend to question her sexuality. Like right now, not 30 years later when it is too late to have an operation.

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