There is this beautiful woman at my local Walmart who recognises me; she always smiles and waves at me. She usually works at the service desk and, from across the room, said, “How are you doing?” Now I’m aware retail workers are nice to customers because they have to be, but I still decided to shoot my shot. While no one was at the service area, she said, “Do you need help with something?” I was nervous and asked her name. She told me. I asked her how her Christmas was, and she said, “Good.” It was clear she didn’t want to have a conversation, so I just said, “I just wanted to say hi,” and left.
I’m aware of body language, and I take rejection well, so I just left.
But yeah, I’ve never asked out or dated a retail worker. I’m aware that just because someone is friendly with you doesn’t mean they like you, but I still wanted to shoot my shot.
Note to self: never ask out or date a retail worker.
Mothra@mander.xyz 1 day ago
Good on you for becoming self aware but this is not a showerthought
Grimreaper@sopuli.xyz 1 day ago
I’m always self-aware and can read body language, and I don’t take rejection very personally; I just walk away. If I continue going to this Walmart, I’ll wave to her, but I probably won’t speak to her unless she initiates it.
That and I try to talk to women like I would literally anyone else. Granted, I’m obviously more verbose when I talk to a woman I’m attracted to, but I don’t use pickup lines or “play the game”; I usually talk to them like a normal person.
Mothra@mander.xyz 1 day ago
Now try to become self aware of online etiquette
Agrivar@lemmy.world 1 day ago
but this is not a showerthought
Agrivar@lemmy.world 1 day ago
Oh no, you’re clearly not one of “those guys.” Do you, by any chance, wear a trilby and call women “milady?”