The trick is to imagine a box in your mind, and placing all the bad feelings in the box. It’s such a weight off when they go back in the box!
Then you imagine shoving the box deep into the back of your mind where you won’t accidentally open it.
That’s my pro tip anyway, it’s what keeps me sane.
einfach_orangensaft@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
it happens
ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
It’s still so jarring every time though
MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz 2 weeks ago
I think you made a common mistake. See, you don’t just bury the darkness, you need to also disossiate from reality. Even if you internally suffer accidental contact with the void, it doesn’t make it all the way out to become a physical expression.
This way, you can disconnect your outward behaviour from you active thinking, so that even if you mentally implode, no-one can tell!
Neat, huh?
(This is horrible advice, do not attempt. Never hide this level of anguish with loved ones. Potentially useful in professional settings, but still harmful.)