Submitted 3 weeks ago by AuroraGlamour@lemmy.ml to nostupidquestions@lemmy.world
My sister Lena’s boyfriend Dominic has French parents who he says don’t speak any English at all. Dominic could just translate for them, but if our parents our meeting his, is there a more convenient way or will he just have to translate all the time?
Like, what if his parents just want to communicate with ours without Dominic or Lena? Do they just use the voice to translated text?
I find Google’s live translate makes things pretty easy, but it won’t be as good as Dominic
That’s fair!
People who really want to communicate with each other will find a way.
I think English<>French is a language pair you could get instant translations with the help of Google. So there’s a tech solution that will cause humorous misunderstands but will make do. You could hire somebody who is bilingual for the first meeting to let the parents talk behind their kids’ backs.
If they are French, they may actually be able to have a simple conversation in English but the boyfriend wouldn’t know because they lose this ability the moment they cross the border back into France. That’s a silly stereotype but I like it.
I would just use an app to translate. Being the polyglot doing the translations all the time is so annoying, speaking from experiance.
The polyglot should only speak up if the translations is wrong, otherwise, just let an app does its thing. That’s what I would do.
Privacy-wise, probably not that optimal, since you know… internet mass surveillance. But at least you’ll understand each other.
Use basic words, don’t use fancy vocabulary. Easier to get translated. No idioms, no metaphors just the basic words.
Btw: if one of you have a Samsung Phone, there is a “AI-Assisted” live-translation feature that should make the translations better and more accurate, supposedly.
If you have an iPhone, it has a built in translation app too, that does voice to voice with written summaries.
That’s good advice! Thank you!
I’d imagine you could find a language instructor that could go both ways.
(you know what I mean. Teach the one family english and the other french.)
How would a bi-sexual language instructor help?
Just pick up a little bit of French and then when you meet them, you can get by with a mixture of Frenglish, gesturing, cross-language dictionaries, and help from Domenic.
That’s fair!
toy_boat_toy_boat@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
unless anyone involved has any issues with alcohol, i STRONGLY suggest picking up a couple bottles of wine. this is not a joke.
chemical_cutthroat@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
I played dominoes with a bunch of Cubans that didn’t speak English, and I spoke very little Spanish. By the 3rd bottle of rum we all understood each other perfectly.
toy_boat_toy_boat@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
two personal experiences i can add:
i went to a resort in cuba and met a group from quebec. we were best friends and hung out at the open bar every night, but we couldn’t do much more than say hi and smile when we passed each other during the day
i moved to a city and used to go to the polish bar near my apartment a lot. i’d hang out with a bunch of old, fat czech dudes. never understood a word they said, never figured out how to properly say Tyskie, but always a ton of laughs and the only time i ever had vodka that i actually liked the taste of
QuarterSwede@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Ever been to Oktoberfest in Munich? 100% why everyone from around the world is having a great time together. It isn’t the bad English. Great advice!
Treczoks@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Make it a good wine.