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• CarbonatedPastaSauce@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  I am so happy for you for all that self improvement! It’s really brave to put yourself out there like this, too. I’m on the other side of the planet but I hope you find some folks close by or at least in a compatible time zone!

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• ALiteralCabbage@feddit.uk ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  That’s an awesome set of improvements - well done!

  I can’t promise to be any use to you, but I’m glad to swap ideas about what the fuck to make of our 30s…

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  • cabbage@piefed.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Sweet user name!

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    • ALiteralCabbage@feddit.uk ⁨22⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Thanks - same to you!

      I think it’s a combo of being a “real” adult, thinking about the implications of things going on in the world (on yourself and everyone else) and the world being a mess.

      Still, at least I’m old enough to be comfortable in my self (even if it’s anxious, unfit, and aching) and generally happy to just be.

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  • amksenin@lemmy.world ⁨18⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    thanks bro haha sure do you have ig or telegram?

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• amksenin@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  PS. I don’t know how this website works but we can talk on IG or Tlgrm

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  • Blackfeathr@lemmy.world ⁨20⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Idk why but this post gives me strong scam bot vibes.

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  • cabbage@piefed.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Welcome here! It's more focused on public discussion and less on individuals here, but there are some friendly communities around here as well. I hope you'll like it, but it might not indeed be the best platform for developing proper friendships. :)

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    • amksenin@lemmy.world ⁨18⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      hey, thanks, which friendly community do you recommend?

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  • cRazi_man@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Telegram works: t.me/cRazi_guy

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    • amksenin@lemmy.world ⁨18⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      sent you a message

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• shittydwarf@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  Are you following any weightlifting program in particular? I got a barbell and a rack during Covid and turned myself into a brick shithouse with 531 and tactical barbell. /r/weightroom is the community I miss the most from reddit

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  • amksenin@lemmy.world ⁨18⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    damn, good on you bro, i’m not following a program but i prolly should. why do you miss that community or how did it help?

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    • shittydwarf@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨17⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      A good program makes all the difference!

      /r/weightroom: There we’re experienced people that would answer questions, daily threads for posting workouts, program reviews, from time to time they would run a cycle of super squats together and everyone would report their progress and share the suffering… just generally a great place if you’re interested in lifting

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• Blaze@sopuli.xyz ⁨16⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Feel free to join !casualconversation@lemm.ee and !yurop@lemm.ee

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  • amksenin@lemmy.world ⁨15⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    thanks

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• partial_accumen@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  First, well done on all the improvements you’ve made to yourself. You should be proud not only of identifying what it was about yourself you wanted to improve, but also following through with it. Well done!

  I could use an online friend who wants to help me focus on what’s most important in life.

  …and…

  2. relationships (facing my fear or what I avoid, choosing right person(s))

  On the relationship side,

  A. Relationships are bidirectional - part would be showing care and concern for the person you’re looking to interact with. A friendship should be bi-directional. You’re stating what you want from the relationship here completely in divorced from anything your potential friend would want or need. Where are you showing concern and help for the person you want to be friends with? Why would someone want to be a friend if you’re starting the relationship with you just receiving, and not giving in return?

  B. Show value - Besides the attributes of being a breathing and speaking human (those have value too), what special talents or knowledge do you have that you can help your friend in achieving their goals?

  These are components for all relationship, but specifically for friendships too.

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  • amksenin@lemmy.world ⁨18⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    i mentioned i could visit this person even tho he is in a different country. is that nothing?

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    • partial_accumen@lemmy.world ⁨18⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      With the additional context of your post, it sounds like you would be willing to go to the other country to accomplish you goals for your benefit as that was the main thrust of your post as written.

      Communicate statements about what you’d like to do together with your new friend and how you can help them with their goals, then that statement about visiting is much more impactful to a new friend.

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• aoidenpa@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  Your username is very rude! :P

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  • amksenin@lemmy.world ⁨18⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    lol how did you know?

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