Comment on Spreading of the 100 biggest Lemmy communities

• Emmie@lemm.ee ⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  I don’t like to make myself blind to the things so to say. I prefer to see everything, every post and comment.

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  • knatschus@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Sounds like you waste alot of time with people who don’t deserve it

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    • Emmie@lemm.ee ⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      This maybe a side effect of turning off the points experiment. Instead of getting dopamine from points I get inbox points. So it could be that I subconsciously make my comments in a way that is more likely to attract some kind of response.

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      • ericjmorey@discuss.online ⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Seems like a good strategy would be to not have every post and comment shown to you if your goal is to break your habit of spending too much time on your phone or PC.

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  • li10@feddit.uk ⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I would much rather signup to an instance that handles that for me.

    As long as the instance is clear about what they defederate from and their reasons, then I’m happy with that. And if I wasn’t, I could choose a different instance.

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    • blackn1ght@feddit.uk ⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Our instance is federated with hexbear, lemmygrad etc. I want to be resonsible for what I see and block, I’m really not a fan of defederation unless it’s a last resort (i.e. CSAM or other illegal content).

      I did end up blocking the lemmy.ml instance though, fuck that place. I haven’t even blocked hexbear or lemmygrad.

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      • Emperor@feddit.uk ⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Our instance is federated with hexbear, lemmygrad etc. I want to be resonsible for what I see and block, I’m really not a fan of defederation unless it’s a last resort (i.e. CSAM or other illegal content).

        Yes, that’s pretty much our take on it: we’ll defederate CSAM (and nonce-adjacent) instances asap, those with lax registration tend to become havens for spammers and trolls, so there is usually a wave of defederating, then someone reaches out to them, it gets sorted and we allow them back in. That tends to be the regular defederation and isn’t controversial. Defederating, for example, Hexbear over, for example, trolling would be a bigger deal and we’d try and speak to the other Admins about it before any permanent banning.

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    • WalrusDragonOnABike@lemmy.today ⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Isn’t your instance federated with hexbear? Seems like it hardly blocks any lemmy instances.

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      • li10@feddit.uk ⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        lol, forgot I was even on my feddit.uk account.

        I’d already gone through blocking all of that stuff via my app before the defederation stuff happened, but if I were signing up to a new instance I’d appreciate it being blocked by default.

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  • Blackmist@feddit.uk ⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I think ideally a Lemmy client could connect to a number of instances, and you could add the more contentious ones yourself.

    Some of these places are literally hosting child porn. You don’t want that mirrored to a server that you’re responsible for.

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  • TomSelleck@lemm.ee ⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Same here. I’ll curate my personal feed but I’ll occasionally scroll everything just to see what random new instance I’ll find, and to keep myself aware of what the current rhetoric is with the various groups.

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