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fakir@lemm.ee ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

You sound like someone on the ASD spectrum - honest, principled, not confirming to social norms, overthinking. You had to mask to survive, yes, so obviously there is a facade, but that don’t make you a thief. You are thoughtful & intelligent, & capable of using logic to steer the conversation, but that don’t make you manipulative. You are honest man with morals, how can you not be kind? Why don’t you consider yourself a nice person?

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agent_flounder@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
For what it’s worth, ADHD folks tend not to fit social norms, either, and have blind spots about their behavior and how people perceive them.

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- moistclump@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
  I had ADHD but also read this as ASD.
  
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  - snooggums@midwest.social ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
    There is a lot of overlap with ASD and ADHD symptoms/behaviors.
    
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Daft_ish@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
They might be a psychopath considering how they got this person on their side with like 3 paragraphs of text. My conclusion, I’m not ruling it out.

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Thorny_Insight@lemm.ee ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

Why don’t you consider yourself a nice person?

I’m a bit arrogant at times and have very little patience with people I don’t find interesting. If I like my own company better than being around someone else they’ll probably going to notice. I also find most topics that “normies” talk about to be extremely uninteresting which is why for the most of the time I just remain silent and then when I do open my mouth it’s often something that goes against the common narrative or just otherwise is easy to misunderstand. Then there’s often this one guy in that group who later comes to me in private and tells me that they totally agree with what I said earlier. Those are the people I then bond with.

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- fakir@lemm.ee ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
  Yep, ASD. We are intelligent. We are perfectionists. We take our sweet time to learn about the world around us. Once we’ve learnt about something, we are quite sure of it, & hence we’re strongly opinioniated on things we know. Stupidity, and not being able to see things correctly may even ‘trigger’ us, & hence we can come across as arrogant. We can see the forest for the trees, but we lose our minds because the rest of the world only sees the trees for the trees.
  
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