Likely, the dude peaked in high school, kept going to high school parties after graduation cause all the underage kids he bought booze for thought he was cool, and discovered young girls didn’t need as much effort to impress.
Or, to summarize, “You know what I like about high school chicks? I keep getting older, they stay the same age.”
Hurensohn@lemmy.world 11 months ago
It is the power imbalance that they get off on.
Lmaydev@programming.dev 11 months ago
Some people are born with an attraction to children that they can’t help.
Some people are monsters who enjoy the power.
They are two very different things.
Natural attraction can be dealt with in therapy but most people won’t come forward about it. As if it gets out their life would be over.
I can imagine it really sucks for people born that way being lumped together with the actual pieces of shit.
ratman150@sh.itjust.works 11 months ago
Yeah sorry we’re not doing the “map” thing. Predators are predators.
Lmaydev@programming.dev 11 months ago
This is exactly my point. Thanks for illustrating it so clearly.
unnecessarygoat@lemmy.world 11 months ago
wouldn’t that be conversion therapy?
Lmaydev@programming.dev 11 months ago
Not really. It’s about learning to manage it.
Case@lemmynsfw.com 11 months ago
So why not explore the mental domination subset of BDSM with a consenting (and of legal age) partner?
kandoh@reddthat.com 11 months ago
You’re right, you’ve really found the flaw in this guys approach.