Comment on AITA for doing a GoFundMe? (Details within.)

• SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  If they’re really your friends, they will be happy to help you.

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• PP_BOY_@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  I’ve experienced similar quandaries in my life before, but you have to ask yourself, “would I think any less of my friends/family members if they asked me for help?”

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  • meco03211@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    I’d maybe be a little hurt that my friend didn’t think they could ask for some help.

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  • FlyingSquid@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Fair.

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    • Lemjukes@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      American individualism and ‘bootstrapping’ is one of the great American Lies. There is no shame in needing help because broken social systems failed you. Anyone who would think less of you for needing help with medical bills is someone you don’t want in your life anyway. if we were truly a civilized nation you wouldn’t be having this problem.

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• foggy@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  You could ask a friend to set one up for you, which could help lessen that stigma

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  • FlyingSquid@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    That would just make me feel guilty for asking them! I’m a guilt-ridden mess!

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• PeleSpirit@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  What if you have something that needs to be caught early? You need to get to NY and find out and not fumble around in the dark in Indiana. I’m not shitting on the doctors in Indiana either, some places are more specialized and it sounds like your doctors are more general health or things they see a lot.

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• otter@lemmy.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  Great advice already here

  Another thing is that you’re not directly asking any particular person to donate. They have the option to just share the post with others (which is also great because there are more people out there who also want to donate/advocate on your behalf).

  You can also include a message similar to what you have here :)

  Hope

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  • FlyingSquid@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    You can also include a message similar to what you have here :)

    Very good advice! Thanks!

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