Comment on Study reveals some teens receive 5,000 notifications daily, most spend almost two hours on TikTok | Kids officially don't like Facebook

Zerlyna@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

• noodlejetski@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  probably from all the people
  who can’t form a single sentence
  without hitting “send”
  every two words

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  • dependencyInjection@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    I heard it coined as they use the send button as punctuation.

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    • Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Mhm, I’ll absolutely do this sometimes, as a stylistic choice. I usually type and text with perfect spelling and punctuation (at least as close to perfect as my brain can get!)

      Sometimes, typing in a punctuation-free or texting in a rapid manner like that can make a message come across the way it sounds in my mind.

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  • user224@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    I kinda need to do this with my dad, otherwise he doesn’t notice texts. For example he texts me “Buy that spread for €0.79”. “Hazelnut or cocoa?” which if I don’t follow with ~5 question marks, he won’t even notice.

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    • noodlejetski@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      I mean, it’s understandable in cases like those, but when you tell a story that doesn’t require an immediate answer and you end up sending 20 notifications instead of putting it in one longer message, it’s more than annoying.

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    • TheBat@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Just call him back

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      • noodlejetski@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        ew

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      • Fal@yiffit.net ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        Ok boomer

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      • FlyingSquid@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        Call? What’s wrong with you?

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  • RamSwamson@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    I recently started dating again and noticed a lot of people do this now it’s very annoying.

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    • noodlejetski@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      I’ve got one person doing that in my work group chat. I’ve got Buzzkill installed for the sole purpose of muting the chat for five minutes whenever they send a message in order to avoid my watch constantly vibrating for two minutes.

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      • lolcatnip@reddthat.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        TIL about Buzzlill. Holy shit. I could probably do the same thing with Tasker but I’ll happily pay $4 so I don’t have to.

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  • Godric@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Wrong

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  • Godric@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    That?

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  • Godric@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    With

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  • Godric@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    What’s

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  • newIdentity@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    What’s the disadvantage? I really only see advantages.

    So here’s an example:

    you: hey

    you: are you free right now?

    other: nah. Sorry

    other: but I shold have time around 17:00.

    you: Ok. Call me when you’re done. It’s kinda important

    other: Ok

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    The first message introduces a conversation followed by a follow up. As soon as you send the first message it’s easier to send the second one too since you already introduced the conversation.

    The other person then answers with a short answer where they don’t really have to think about what they write and how they write it. You instantly get an answer.

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    • noodlejetski@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      What’s the disadvantage?

      nohello.net/en/

      A: hey (my watch vibrates once) A: are you free right now? (my watch vibrates again) B: nah. Sorry (their phone plays the sound once) B: but I shold have time around 17:00. (their phone plays the sound again)

      as opposed to:

      A: hey, are you free right now? (one vibration) B: nah, sorry, but I should have time around 17:00 (one sound played)

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      • flames5123@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        The amount of times I’ve had to send this to other developers is infuriating. I’ll wait 5 mins for them to send the part after “hey.” I’m not replying back without an inquiry. I’ve got work to do.

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      • newIdentity@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        I don’t really see a problem with that. Also it shouldn’t vibrate if you’re already in the chat. So that really isn’t a problem since you usually see that the other person is typing and usually wait for them to send the message as long as they aren’t taking too long.

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    • Critical_Insight@feddit.uk ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      My friends in a group chat sometimes have something to ask me so they be like: ‘Hey, Critical_Insight?’ - to which I two hours later reply: ‘Yeah?’ and then maybe an hour later I get the actual question and an hour from that I reply to it. If they instead would’ve just asked the question in the first message, I then would have answered to in in my first reply, and then be done with it. Maybe it’s just me, but I see that as waste of everyones time.

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• GenderNeutralBro@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  I know a lot of people who never change their Discord notifications. They get notifications for every message in every channel in every server. It’s insane.

  Obviously they do not actually interact with these notifications. They tune them out, and I guess eventually they will swipe them away. Personally it always stresses me out a little when I see their phones with a hundred notifications. I’ve never been a proponent of “inbox zero” for email, but “notification bar zero” has been my standard way of using smartphones for as long as smartphones have existed. If I got 3 notifications per minute on my phone, I would probably smash it with a hammer and go find a nice cave to retire to.

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  • Wisely@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    I have been doing inbox zero for a few months now and it has been great. Swipe right to delete, left to archive. Anything in my inbox actually needs my attention.

    Also don’t give out my real email and unsubscribe from anything I don’t need. It’s just a few emails per day now.

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  • user224@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    notification bar zero

    What about permanent notifications? I’ve got “a few”.

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    • GenderNeutralBro@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Yeah, I have a few as well. A lot of those can be hidden without being killed if you long-press them and click the gear. Others I actually like to have so I can see the status, e.g. I want to know if my VPN disconnects.

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      • JackGreenEarth@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        The key will disappear from the status bar if it disconnects, you don’t need the app icon too.

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  • newIdentity@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    I just glance at it and instantly swipe away what I don’t need.

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• KSPAtlas@sopuli.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  This number is skewed by Notifications John, who receives millions of notifications a day and should not be counted

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• lustrum@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  I can see my phone getting that if I let every app just push whatever they want. I purposefully and carefully go through and ensure I’m only getting notifications for what I need them for.

  I average 250 a day. With 3/4 of those being messaging apps.

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• MarigoldPuppyFlavors@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  I feel like I’d install a bunch of shit before getting anywhere close to a tenth of that. I’d hate my phone. However, I’m far from being a teenager and their ways and methods have become somewhat mysterious.

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• PixxlMan@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  Probably also random games and apps spamming you to play them

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• RobotToaster@mander.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  I get a lot, although not that many, but I have sound turned off for most and clear them like once a week or so.

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• Ghostalmedia@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  60% of the group get less than 300 80% get less than 500

  5000 is probably a very very small percent, and probably kids that have a shit load of followers.

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• Ado@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  Holy shit man. That sounds so stressful

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