it’s not selection bias, it’s what’s on the market.
unless you think I should start trying to date married women?
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Azzu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 hours agoGotta remember selection bias. The single women are on the dating market because of their horrible views, the ones who aren’t horrible are not on the dating market anymore.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 4 hours ago
Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 4 hours ago
Wouldn’t that argument work the same way for men? To be clear, I’m not a fan of that argument for any gender. But fair is fair.
I’m polyam, so my experiences are quite different. I’m finding more married people looking for a third, which is awkward when I’m more of a “relationship anarchist” and don’t want to put my partners into tiers above/below each other (or be put into such tiers myself.)
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 3 hours ago
People just want all the the benefits with none of the drawbacks. They are just selfish and greedy.
I often see the whole ‘monogamish’ nonsense now too. It basically means, I want all the benefits of monogamy, but when I also want to be able to bang other people when I want, but also you can’t do that because that would make me feel insecure…
I actaully did date someone like that. She wanted to date other people, but as soon as I started seeing other women she got very very angry and jealous and told me it was not ‘fair’. She was just a selfish asshole who wanted me to be monogamous to her, while she was no monogamous to me.