Azzu
@Azzu@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Creator of LULs (a script which helps links to point to your instance)
Come say hi here or over at twitch.tv/AzzuriteTV :) I like getting to know more people :)
Play games with me: steamcommunity.com/id/azzu
- Comment on What's the deal with breakfast in bed? 1 week ago:
Almost no one showers more than once per day.
- Comment on If a girl asks you if you're big, are you supposed to lie or not? 1 week ago:
I would answer the true size in the unit of football fields
- Comment on If a girl asks you if you're big, are you supposed to lie or not? 1 week ago:
Generally, if a woman asks you this, it is supposed to trigger male penis insecurities to see how you handle it.
So, even if you are not insecure about your penis size, you’re quite obviously insecure in how to answer the question. For a woman that cares about this, you failed already, no matter what you answer.
Of course, if you manage to obscure your insecurity, your failure might be hidden. Such is the way of dating, in general.
- Comment on I've recently turned into a blocker. 1 week ago:
No, I experience the same thing, I just don’t find it super annoying. I just skip over those posts, or actually, if it has comments, look at the actually different comments. Sometimes it’s quite interesting how different places have different comments
- Comment on I've recently turned into a blocker. 2 weeks ago:
Blocking is not an adequate defense to that anyway. If someone wants to stalk you, they can just not log in at all. You’re posting in q public place that everyone can see. Because of that, blocking only makes sense in one direction.
- Comment on I've recently turned into a blocker. 2 weeks ago:
That’s… How it’s supposed to be? Not everyone is subscribed to all communities you know.
- Comment on The Discord Breach Might Be Worse Than We Thought, As The Hacker Is Said To Have Two Million Age Verification Photos 2 weeks ago:
Dunno, just didn’t want to make a statement I’m not sure of.
- Comment on The Discord Breach Might Be Worse Than We Thought, As The Hacker Is Said To Have Two Million Age Verification Photos 2 weeks ago:
Forced arbitration clauses are not legal in many European jurisdictions, so “agreeing” to them didn’t actually do anything.
- Comment on A 21-23-year-old dating or sleeping with an older person doesn't automatically make the 21-23-year-old a "victim". 2 weeks ago:
It’s not about pedophilia, it’s about sexual strategy.
The people complaining about it are (usually) older and bitter that being young is more desirable. If humans are born in equal proportions, then one 40 year old and one 20 year old deciding to be together means there is one 40 and one 20 year old that can not have a relationship with someone their own age. Since usually it’s an older man with a younger woman, that means a young man has to find an older woman and an older woman has to find a younger man, both of which (usually) goes against their desires.
They obviously do not like that outcome, thus they try to limit who can date who based on age range, so at least they can get someone their own age.
This behavior is not usually totally conscious.
- Comment on Would I sound taller if I gave my height as 6'-4"? 2 weeks ago:
Regarding your edit: Own your funniness. Look how many people made jokes of their own because of yours. If you had just said “oh it’s a stupid idea” and disregarded it, none of this would have happened.
- Comment on Would I sound taller if I gave my height as 6'-4"? 3 weeks ago:
If you’re doing that, you would sound even taller if you say your height is 10 foot. Maybe you should try that.
But if you’re going there already, why not say you’re 10 yards high? Might as well go big or go to your over-10-yard-high home.
- Comment on [deleted] 3 weeks ago:
Depends on how they meant it.
- Comment on [deleted] 3 weeks ago:
Most people in the world do not have adequate healthcare, many never seeing a doctor in their lives. Plenty of those live to much older than 38.
I’d say it’s very simple to see that whatever you found there is either misrepresenting majorly or complete bollocks.
- Comment on Star Trek: Voyager - Across the Unknown looks like a field day for micro managers in its first gameplay trailer 4 weeks ago:
- Comment on Can someone give me some primers/resources on understanding politics in the Netherlands? 5 weeks ago:
Neither did the person you replied to do that, nor is what you say actually against democracy. Forcing others to vote a certain way is against democracy, but telling someone why they should vote for something is just advertisement.
- Comment on Disney sells us imaginary heroes while supporting real world villains. 5 weeks ago:
As always, companies aren’t people, they are comprised of people. Not all of these people are diabolically evil. And even then, likely the people making the diabolically evil decisions have some streak in them that’s not diabolically evil.
For example, you can’t honestly say that none of the Disney movies had any positive effect on people. Same with stuff that Nintendo does.
Sure, overall the verdict is “diabolically evil”. But there are positives within the overwhelmingly negative.
- Comment on [deleted] 5 weeks ago:
At 42 you don’t have ambitions anymore :(
- Comment on [deleted] 5 weeks ago:
he needs to find someone he can grow with and build a proper future with
Or maybe you can let him decide what he wants? Don’t lead him on, but if he decides something, why would you try to tell him his decision is wrong?
- Comment on FOSS App to Edit videos ? 5 weeks ago:
How do you add a text overlay that follows an object on the screen?
- Comment on Why is the human body so incredibly bad at responding to colds? 5 weeks ago:
Dude, you are in a million years battle with other organisms trying to exploit and kill you, and you’re fucking winning. I would call that a blazing success. The other organisms are trying their literal best, their survival depends on it, and you just KEEP. ON. WINNING.
- Comment on YSK Lemvotes.org will show you votes on any post, comment, or by user, or anything on the fediverse 1 month ago:
This doesn’t really make sense. What you say is only identifying if you already have this information about someone. If you already do have all this info about someone, what else do you need?
- Comment on YSK Lemvotes.org will show you votes on any post, comment, or by user, or anything on the fediverse 1 month ago:
If you’re really worried about that, there’s no reason why you need to have your private details associated to your account. You can even have a “clean” main account for show and a “real” secondary account.
Your votes being public is only a “problem” if your account can be associated with you.
- Comment on YSK Lemvotes.org will show you votes on any post, comment, or by user, or anything on the fediverse 1 month ago:
Except the ability to register an account without any personal details. Which makes it completely private if you want.
- Comment on Do you meditate? 1 month ago:
Don’t know what it’s called, I just let my thoughts go and focus on the sensations of my senses. I do this all the time except when I specifically need to think, which isn’t super often.
- Comment on How long do we have before PCs get locked bootloaders and corporations ban installation of "non-approved" software? (for context: Google is restricting sideloading worldwide on Android ETA 2027) 1 month ago:
Yeah, mine too, it’s not the fastest and most cutting-edge one, though, maybe that’s what they mean.
- Comment on How long do we have before PCs get locked bootloaders and corporations ban installation of "non-approved" software? (for context: Google is restricting sideloading worldwide on Android ETA 2027) 1 month ago:
Not really realistic at all. There’s a market for unlocked devices, and where there’s money, there’ll be a way.
- Comment on Does anybody else feel like Linkwarden is very resource intensive. 1 month ago:
You really don’t get having to pay for things, do you?
- Comment on I'm on the spectrum. How do I live the rest of my life? 1 month ago:
Two things.
For most people, asking “why do you talk so little?” is not a slap in the face, it is an attempt at inclusion. It gets interpreted as a slap in the face. As such, your example is not right.
Secondly, when we expect people to take our autistic sensibilities into account, I think it is entirely fair to take their sensibilities into account as well. Most people do not rub autistic people the wrong way on purpose. We do not rub them the wrong way on purpose. Yet it makes sense for both parties to take the other parties sensibilities into account. Since one can only control oneself, one should start this behavior with oneself.
- Comment on [deleted] 1 month ago:
People in general don’t work by any guiding principles, they work by emotions. Emotions don’t care about consistency.
Acting in a consistent way has to be learned in a rational way, and it involves suppressing your emotional reaction. People are only lile this if they explicitly learn/practice this, the default human without learning that does not work like that.
So, the fact that your dad is good to you and bad to other people is very simply explained: he loves you, acting lovingly, and hates others, acting hatefully.
- Comment on I'm on the spectrum. How do I live the rest of my life? 1 month ago:
You’re doing what they do to you back to them. This is not hard to understand. You don’t like it, so they don’t like it. You’re essentially “proving your point” by taking revenge. The only thing they hear is that you’re taking revenge.
If it was about boundaries, you could say something along the lines “I don’t like these kind of questions, I am perfectly comfortable being quiet, with this question you make it sound like something is wrong about it. I get this question all the time and I don’t want to answer it anymore.”