Comment on Many parents cab probably relate

imsufferableninja@sh.itjust.works ⁨9⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

• can@sh.itjust.works ⁨9⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Is he going to work his job too?

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• Catoblepas@piefed.blahaj.zone ⁨9⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Has nobody had a talk with them about how they’re raising someone incapable of taking care of himself? Do they plan to outlive him? I come from the opposite end of the parental academic aid spectrum, so I don’t understand the thought process at all. Is it just untreated anxiety on their part?

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  • dev_null@lemmy.ml ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Their kids’ needs don’t matter, what matters is that the parent has a successful child. The measure of success is of course from the point of view of the selfish parent.

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    • can@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨hour⁩ ago

      Yes, that is there mindset.

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• MNByChoice@midwest.social ⁨7⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  If college is just a certificate needed to get the good jobs, then this makes a lot of sense.
  If college is there for learning, then it is terrible.

  I bet there is a difference in the ratios between degrees on these. (i.e. Civil Engineering versus Marketing)

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• T3CHT@sh.itjust.works ⁨7⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  And let me guess, he’s “not a good test taker”?

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• captainlezbian@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Damn, how are neither of them ashamed‽

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  • Grail@multiverse.soulism.net ⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    I know the youngster in one of these kinds of situations, and she is ashamed. She’s also intimidated into compliance and desperate to leave so she can have her own life.

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    • can@sh.itjust.works ⁨12⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago

      It’s not her fault, she was born into it, but it’s still sad.

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