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I’m feeling very burnt out. Lemmy is kinda an unless stream of political doom and gloom. For context, I’m in the US and already stressed out by our political situation. But I don’t come here to see more doom and gloom. It’s getting to the point where I think I need to get off for my mental health.

Then there are all the people who if you don’t agree exactly with their opinion they downvote you to hell. You have left leaning politics but not my flavor of left? Downvote! You hate enshitification and bug text privacy practices, but you use a single piece of software that isn’t FOSS? Downvote!

It’s so exacting. I absolutely hate Reddit but I miss going on there and just laughing at how someone’s TV is too high. I miss laughing at how some restaurant serves food of shovels instead of plates.

And that’s not even getting into the lack of content. That part understand requires users like myself to be as active as possible. But it’s hard being active when I feel so burnt out from the other stuff here.

Tbh, idk if these issues are specific to Lemmy or just the internet as a whole. I can only speed to the slice of the internet I find myself in. But I just wanna see people that are excited about things: photography, 3d printing, weird keyboards, etc. And that exists here, but it’s drowned out by all the doom and gloom.

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TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
i’m sick of how awful and ignorant the vast majority of comments here are. and how they have to conflated outlandish beliefs with being morally correct.

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Soulcreator@programming.dev ⁨8⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
Agreed lemme is probably one of the most negative places on the Internet. I joined because I was hoping this place would grow to be a proper alternative for Reddit, with fun niche content, and its own culture of obscure inside jokes. Instead even after several years it still feels like we are the angry trolls living under reddit’s shadow.

One of the biggest things I’ve found that helped me avoid the politics was to leave lemme.world and fill my personal feed up with subscriptions to content that fits my interest. Politics has ways of working its way into content none the less, but at least I’ve got a fighting chance.

I really do believe lemme is going to struggle to find people who want to stick around unless it starts to embrace fun light hearted content. I’m not sure how we’d do that as a platform, but I do believe that’s one of the big reasons people will struggle to adopt this corner of the Internet as their own.

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- GardenGeek@europe.pub ⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
  I guess the problem are the users (you and me) or better or use of plattforms itself.
  
  On reddit I tended to be lurker. And if most of us are the few which actually POST content are the those with strong (mostly political) views who are willing to commit to their cause by flooding the zone with political fights.
  
  Coclusion: If we want a cozy lemmy we need to join/start non-political, subject specific communities and actually CONTRIBUTE something instead of just consuming. Otherwise this cluster of plattforms will end up like all the other due to the same reasons.
  
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- HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
  
  Agreed lemme is probably one of the most negative places on the Internet
  
  parts of lemmy are. cool rocks is pretty positive. there are other positive places. it’s one of those GIGO things.
  
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GardenGeek@europe.pub ⁨8⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
What you’re describing isn’t Lemmy specific I think, same happens of you browse the news feed of reddit (and most probably also other social media).

What helps me is subscribing to non-political topics and scrolling through your own feed of non-political stuff instead of the main site… gardening, hobbies, memes… that’s what these sites once ought to be made for. Not 24/7 political bombardment.

Sidenote: Digital detox also helps for sure '^^

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Maragato@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
Indeed, I believe that the Fediverse is a paradise island where one can escape the noise created mainly by AI bots on centralised, proprietary social networks, but many users get a dopamine rush from eliciting an emotional response on the network, and that rush is provided by Reddit’s algorithms.

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Wren@lemmy.today ⁨8⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
Join !cool_rocks@lemmy.today if you’re sick of doom. It’s just cool rocks and discussions about rocks.

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ItWasntme223@lemmy.jtworld.xyz ⁨7⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
I can understand this a lot. I wanted to escape the doom and gloom of politics (also American) and I have found that if I’m going to have communities I want, I’m gonna have to make some. lol I’m a big Azur Lane player and have been trying to add content to the Azur Lane communities on !azurlane@sh.itjust.works and !azurlane@discuss.online.

I think a lot of what happens is those who enjoy political discourse have been coming here so a lot of that content is predominate. Creating alternative communities of interest may be the only way to balance it out.

But I’m just spitballing here.

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TipsyMcGee@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨8⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
I really like that you get to see both downvotes and upvotes, but maybe that reinforces your experience of being downvoted often?

I just wanna see people that are excited about things: photography, 3d printing, weird keyboards, etc. And that exists here, but it’s drowned out by all the doom and gloom.

Yeah this is a general problem, even if you’d just want the ”doom and gloom” – no matter what thing you want to sort out or get more of - you’re left with a ghost town. It’s everything or nothing and the things generating the most discussion are for sure the catastrophic stuff happening.

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