I think I can live with using condoms to be completely honest. I do intend to get a vasectomy after I either have kids or decide that I don’t want them.
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Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 1 day agoLook into freezing sperm now while you’re young and it’s squirmy and spermy and healthy. Then you can get the snip (or the no-snip method) and when you do want kids you won’t be ruining your sex life with scheduled sessions. She can get inseminated when the ultrasound shows an ovum is waiting and it’ll have a better chance of conception. Go in with her if you can and she’s comfortable with that. Just as you will for the birth.
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Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 1 day ago
Condoms are cool, all the ladies love a man who uses condoms.
swampdownloader@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 day ago
“Ruining your sex life with scheduled sessions”? Oh no I have to fuck a lot, woe is me
Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 1 day ago
It sounds like fun but having gone through it for a couple of years, it’s not. There’s times of abstinence and times when it’s all about impregnation, not spontaneity or fun. She’s constantly watching her cycle, and every period is extra depressing. And that’s not counting any infertility treatments like hormones fucking with emotions. Our now-adult offspring are amazing and I’m glad we did it, but it wasn’t just “fuck a lot.”