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A_norny_mousse@feddit.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

• vaccinium_myrtillus@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

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  • PhobosAnomaly@feddit.uk ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    There are no answers here, only more questions - and it is glorious.

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  • khannie@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    It’s ambiguous. Fresh white bread could be considered both amazing or dull.

    Did you feel like the date went well?

    If it was meant as an insult then the guy is a cunt. Did he give off cunt vibes?

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  • A_norny_mousse@feddit.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    I think it’s a clever way of saying “I find you appealing just the way you are, but not uncritically so.”

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  • null_dot@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Who knows what this guy really meant but we can probably infer some things.

    He did not take the opportunity to say “You’re really amazing and interesting and smart and funny” or anything similar.

    It’s also a weird thing to say.

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  • prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Just ask the guy.

    He could be thinking of like a bakery, in which case I’d say it’s a compliment.

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  • klemptor@startrek.website ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    In that context it usually means he thinks you’re boring.

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  • passepartout@feddit.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    There is obviously a lot to unpack here, most of it is just plain gibberish. The best option here, as always, is to ask him directly.

    Pro: Fresh white bread can be very delicious. It is soft and fluffy, and depending on the freshness even still warm, which are all really nice things to be associated with imho. It is also versatile, as it can be crafted to e.g. a list of delicious sandwiches. The focus on the whiteness of the bread may be in remembrance to a time when paleness was a female beauty standard.

    Contra: It is not the healthiest choice of breads, but not a lot of wheat products are. If I’m not mistaken, it could also be a slur for people with a light skin tone.

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