They were trying to get free meals out of the guy. Fuck them, actually. Bums.
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SatansMaggotyCumFart@piefed.world 5 hours ago
Hopefully that lady has enough self respect to tell that boy to go fuck himself.
50_centavos@lemmy.world 3 hours ago
Inaminate_Carbon_Rod@lemmy.world 7 minutes ago
The dude is the only one who mentioned money.
When he said he wasn’t paying she didn’t ask him to or imply that she was disappointed.
This seems like the dude dropped the ball.
Bahnd@lemmy.world 1 hour ago
I dont mind that, so long as the food is cheap.
My personal limit for that is ~20$, anything less than that and within reason, I wont question buying anyone food. Calories are important and im not going to judge people that quickly, have a pizza.
I prefer to have that meal repaid in the future with an IOU or another meal rather dealing with money, also the social connections are more important.
On the flip side, if I never see that person again. 20$ well spent.
sexy_peach@feddit.org 5 hours ago
They did nothing though?
SatansMaggotyCumFart@piefed.world 5 hours ago
They told the lady who they were with that last message now it's up to her to listen.
webghost0101@sopuli.xyz 4 hours ago
Gendernormative assumption of gender?
SatansMaggotyCumFart i have seen you before and i do expect better of you.
balsoft@lemmy.ml 4 hours ago
I don’t think “safety friends” are typical in lesbian circles, because of the implication
ghost@literature.cafe 3 hours ago
i was literally just thinking of this. Well played
generichate1546@lemmynsfw.com 4 hours ago
Satansmaggotycumfart is correct…hopefully she sees that response as the red flag that it is.
FelixCress@lemmy.world 4 hours ago
Not paying for a freeloader is a red flag now?
knightly@pawb.social 4 hours ago
Saying so once would have been fine. If he’s fine with the Safety Friend and she wanted to pay her own way then there’s no conflict.
But saying so twice? That’s some insecurity right there, and it would have me reconsidering even if I was desperate both for a free meal and to get laid.