Killer57@lemmy.ca 1 day ago
I mean honestly, at the end of the day why should you have to tell them if they look like they fit in, and they’re happy, let that be.
Killer57@lemmy.ca 1 day ago
I mean honestly, at the end of the day why should you have to tell them if they look like they fit in, and they’re happy, let that be.
piccolo@sh.itjust.works 1 day ago
Medical history would be pretty important.
Taleya@aussie.zone 1 day ago
Tbh i was fucking 40 before my mother casually mentioned haematomachrosis "ran in the family’ and there’s plenty of disconnected ignorant or straight up deluded people out there. Not really a strong argument.
Fleur_@aussie.zone 4 hours ago
Right but if a doctor asked you to check with your biological mother you would know who to go to and be able to get accurate information.
Taleya@aussie.zone 3 hours ago
uh, no
1 - Doctors don’t do that. they may ask “Any history of X in your family?” but it’s not a supercritical diagnosis factor, they can easily work without it.
2 - a number of people - myself included - have no contact with their biological parents despite being raised by them. Quite the opposite, ironically. There are also a number of people who have lost their parents / family over the years
3 - your parents are not accurate information sources.
jerkface@lemmy.ca 14 hours ago
Argument by bucket of crabs
Taleya@aussie.zone 13 hours ago
i don’t understand this comment
Killer57@lemmy.ca 1 day ago
I can agree on that, but those are things that can be mentioned as running in the family.