You need to relax…
Comment on Calm down
Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 4 weeks agoSo use any one of the multitudinous other phrases available in English to actually HELP them become calmer or less agitated. Respond to the facts of the individual situation instead. “He’s not worth it.” “You’re better than this/you have been doing so much better, don’t let this set you back.” “You’re in a bad trip man, gonna have to ride it out as easy as you can.” “Chill, dude.” “Take a deep breath.” (This may be followed by one loud long scream, but that’s cathartic and may be followed by rational behavior)
Nobody, no matter how much they need to get control over their emotions and behavior, needs to “calm down”.
ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 4 weeks ago
You are getting sleeeeepy…
supergrizzlybear@pawb.social 4 weeks ago
the suns getting real low
Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 4 weeks ago
That’s a good one!
sundray@lemmus.org 4 weeks ago
Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 4 weeks ago
It’s funny how upset some get over the phrase when in fact they really do need to calm down. You need to use some roundabout term for it, “chill”, even though it means the same thing.
Interesting thing
brown567@sh.itjust.works 4 weeks ago
I’ve found that “you’re embarrassing yourself” usually produces results with a large magnitude and a highly variable direction
Lv_InSaNe_vL@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
I’ve said “nobody wants to hear your bullshit” which also tends to have a very large effect. Which way the effect swings is completely unknowable but the dynamic will be very different after haha