kivihiili
@kivihiili@lemmy.blahaj.zone
she, her, etc.
- Submitted 4 days ago to [deleted] | 8 comments
- Comment on fuck it, just paste your clipboard in the comments 6 days ago:
ctrl+v: (from a previous post)
i think it would be more accurate so say that, often, asexuality yearns for the absence of sex, rather than being defined by it.
middle click: (from a message i sent to my friend on steam i think? no idea how middle click clipboard actually works honestly)
o meowmaxxing is the PERFECT word
holy shit i just realized i went to the grocery store wearing a fucking COLLAR
i am goin gto
di e
goodness gracious me
[2/22/2026, 5:40 PM] [my username]:
wait i mig
(if you want a conclusion to the story, i realized that my coat would have completely obscured it and no embarrassment was to be had lol)
- Comment on i'll never fail 6 days ago:
hell yeah this is peak
uh also when i started hrt i noticed i smelled a lot different, and it varies a little based on how long its been since application. in your experience does sex hormone fluctuation like actually have a noticeable effect on this too or not really? personally i’ve never really payed attention hehe
- Comment on a girl can never be hyperfeminine/sexual, chaotic, unfiltered online without ulterior motives allegations 6 days ago:
i sometimes experience a problem myself similar in vain to this.
as much as i enjoy snuggling and affection and even more “smutty” stuff like breasts, i do not enjoy the prospect of sex. perhaps its some form of gender dysphoria, perhaps its something else, honestly not super sure. all i know is i don’t find sex appealing!! but i’m also not vehemently against it or disgusted by it. i think this article puts it really well:
i think it would be more accurate so [sic] say that, often, asexuality yearns for the absence of sex, rather than being defined by it.
with regards to nudity: the only times it actually makes me feel a little uncomfortable is when it is set in a sexual/romantic setting. if someone is at the lake with not as much as a patch of covering on them and just swimming around and having fun, i don’t mind at all. so long as its not sexualized i think nudity is perfectly okay! but, if it is brought into any romance through even just caressing the other’s hair or whatever, it puts me off a little.
again, i do like this sort of affection, i do absolutely find people attractive. i just enjoy being able to be affectionate or observe it without having to partake in/bear witness to sex!
however, a marginally decent number of people are seemingly unable to comprehend any this. quite often some people get incredibly confused no matter how much i try and explain this to them. i’ve never really been ridiculed for it thankfully, but it just does not seem to compute in some people’s heads that i am not fond of sex!!
that aside, this is thankfully one of the better places i’ve seen on the internet, and i’m glad to be here!! regardless i provide you with my best wishes when it comes to fending off the demands of the internet, and my apologies for the ramble :D
- Comment on you won't regret it 1 week ago:
communism
- Comment on you won't regret it 1 week ago:
yayyy
one more for the collection!!
- Submitted 2 weeks ago to [deleted] | 2 comments
