SpongyAneurism

@SpongyAneurism@lemmy.frozeninferno.xyz

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Winning⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago⁩:

  Yeah, she was weird anyways. Our session mostly consisted of arguments about our conflicting world views.

  Unfortunately it was my first therapy and it took me way too long to call it quits and find a different therapist. But I did, eventually.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Winning⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago⁩:

  I made my therapist lose her shits, because I sat in her chair once.
  The arrangement was a small table and two identical chairs on either side, with no indication who has to sit where, other than how we’d usually do it and no clear instructions.
  She couldn’t handle it and couldn’t let it go weeks after that session.
  Am I winning?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Winning⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago⁩:

  My therapist asked me this on some occasions. Part of my problem is to realize and acknowledge how I’m actually feeling.

  “In my brain” was never the answer, when she asked that, I always felt different parts of my body.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Winning⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago⁩:

  Does therapy actually help you if you know what your problem is?

  Yes, then you’re already steps ahead. For some people, figuring out what the problem is, already takes therapy, but it doesn’t end there. If you know, what the problem is and know how to fix it, you probably don’t need therapy. But if you know what’s wrong but can’t fix it alone, that’s what therapy is for.

  Also knowing that they’re talking to you because it’s their job feels like the whole thing is a lie and a waste of time.

  Only if you somehow follow the idea, that the therapist has to like you. That is not the case. It is their job and that’s okay. You’re also just talking to them because it’s their job. Why would you open up to a stranger otherwise?

  I mean you should get along together somehow, but you don’t have to be friends with your therapist.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Unpopular popular opinion - fiat⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  My dude jumping right ahead to futures.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Do it⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Punch me I bleed in my ass.

  Literally listening to Children of Bodom, while I read this post. Alexi would have approved, I’m sure.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Flohmarkt - a Fediverse replacement for Facebook Marketplace⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  though most will not do make the r in markt as hard as Germans do.

  Most German dialects (including standard German) barely pronounce that r. It is noticeable, but far from a “hard” pronunciation, in that case i is more like prolonging the “a” sound.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Magic Mineral⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Well put. My answer would have just been, that it’s possible, but that it can be very, very expensive.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Magic Mineral⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Don’t worry. Asbestos cement is not really dangerous, as long as the concrete is intact and you don’t touch it, there’s nothing to be afraid of.

  It’s when it crumbles or you work on it, that you have to take care. The problem is Asbestos dust entering your lungs, where it’s very carcinogenic.

  But intact walls and roof are okay.