marzhall
@marzhall@lemmy.world
- Comment on Finally a map to show me 1 day ago:
Lmao, I love the idea of adjusting the chart for obesity by subtracting men’s breast sizes from women’s
- Comment on That's only fair 1 week ago:
Yep. It’s a play on two meanings of “cut off”:
“If you cut off my reproductive choice” == “prevent my choice to get an abortion.” “can I cut off yours” == “can I physically cut off your dick.”
- Comment on List of Alternatives to Adobe Programs 1 week ago:
Oh jeeze, that’s been around as a plugin in inkscape since at least 2011, I remember vectorizing an episode poster from Adventure Time using it. But I’d believe it wasn’t quite as good as whatever photoshop had. I used the “never learn photoshop” trick to be happy with what I’ve got, but then I only edit images for fun.
- Comment on If all the people throughout history would have said to themselves: "It is what it is", then we 'd all still be living in grass huts and caves. 2 weeks ago:
…on the planet Earth, man had always assumed that he was more intelligent than dolphins because he had achieved so much—the wheel, New York, wars and so on—whilst all the dolphins had ever done was muck about in the water having a good time. But conversely, the dolphins had always believed that they were far more intelligent than man—for precisely the same reasons.
- Douglas Adams
- Comment on Do it 4 weeks ago:
Every Time We Touch In My Ass
- Comment on The Daily Life of a Middle-Aged Online Shopper in Another World • Arafou Otoko no Isekai Tsuuhan Seikatsu - Episode 8 discussion 2 months ago:
Their target audience personified
- Comment on HELP! How do I help educate my son about his body when I know nothing about boys?? 2 months ago:
If he suddenly really wants to do his laundry one morning, don’t ask questions. (Wet dreams and embarassment being the context here.)
That’s about all I can think of that’s gendered, really.
I was ~9 when I got the talk from my Dad, and it was basic stuff about just the mechanics. It set things up so that, around 13, I went to him with questions about how I was feeling re: puberty. So even now it’ll be helpful to do the talk and show that you’re available as a resource.
In your case, your son likely has some idea from internet pornography and whatever he got in school, but it would still be helpful to go through the basics with him. I’d frame it as “I’m sure you know most of this, but i just want to make sure you know what’s important.” It might also be helpful to make clear that pornography is as much acting as TV is - don’t set his expectations on it, it’s people faking things for money.
Going over the importance of condom use also helpful at his age. Keep in mind, it’s not necessarily about what he’s going to use right away, but making sure he knows when he does need to know.
Then, I’d just be there for him and ask if he has any questions, and answer them frankly. Tell him he can come back later if he’s unsure.
It’s awkward and tough I’m sure, but it’ll be a help not just now, but going forward. Good luck!
- Comment on Linus Torvalds reckons AI is ‘90% marketing and 10% reality’ 6 months ago:
There’s a name for it the phenomenon: the AI effect.