While that is a great approach when the words have no weight, ignoring systemic discrimination that perpetuates actual harm is counterproductive.
When a cop calls all black people thugs and criminals, it is something that shouldn’t be ignored. When a football team is named the Washington [slurs] it perpetuates racism against native americans in a way that has actual impacts on people. When schools are named after traitors it shows society is fine with elevating their views and ideals.
The importance of words depends on context and blowing off systemic racism permanently installed in public view because they are ‘just words’ ignores the real harm that those words have. Street signs with derogatory slurs against native people who were the victims of genocide is the equivalent of having slurs used hy the nazis on street signs.
samus12345@lemmy.world 2 months ago
It’s bullshit, though - words do hurt.
muntedcrocodile@lemm.ee 2 months ago
Words hurt exactly as much as you care what whoever said them thinks of you. This leaves u with 2 cases.
Case 1: your friend whoes opinion u value is saying something hurtful, ask em to stop if they dont u dont have to be there friend or value their opinion.
Case 2: its some rando whoes opinion you dont value. The only reason u would care what they think is if your insecure.
So what is it? Words dont hurt? Your friends arnt actually ur friends? Or are u simply insecure?
samus12345@lemmy.world 2 months ago
You’re forgetting about words that come from society itself. Those are a hell of a lot harder to disregard than ones made by an individual.
muntedcrocodile@lemm.ee 2 months ago
Society is made up of individuals. What difference does the number of people make 0 fucks times any things is still 0 fucks.
Arkouda@lemmy.ca 2 months ago
You should work on your spelling and grammar before acting like an authority.
muntedcrocodile@lemm.ee 2 months ago
Never claimed to be an authority. And being a grammar Nazi isnt an argument based in logic, its sidestepping any substance for the sole purpise of being a right old cunt.
Fiivemacs@lemmy.ca 2 months ago
Probably why I’ve hardened myself to the point where I’m basically emotionless. Society does not ever play nice.