Comment on I've heard it clears up again after the first wave of divorces
Socsa@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
The bigger problem is everyone has kids already. But by 45 or so you can start looking for people with adult kids.
Comment on I've heard it clears up again after the first wave of divorces
Socsa@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
The bigger problem is everyone has kids already. But by 45 or so you can start looking for people with adult kids.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 2 months ago
nobody has kids at that age in the urban coastal cities.
lightnsfw@reddthat.com 2 months ago
They must all be in the midwest…
AA5B@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I had my first kid at 40, which was on the later side but not at all unusual.
I came from a more rural area and occasionally here about people my age back there being grandparents already and just have to shake my head at those choices. It just doesn’t happen here
Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 2 months ago
I speedran adulthood and while on one hand I wish I had waited, on the other I’ll be in my mid 40s with an empty nest which is pretty sweet if you ask me
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 2 months ago
yeah i grew up rural and by mid twenties all my HS peers were married w/ kids or doing drugs/prison.
least to i haven’t been back there since i was 19 years old.