Canadian confirming that the angry party leaves the bed. Usually me because I need time to think it through, get pissy and maybe a little childish, get over being pissy and childish and then go talk about it once I’ve realized how I was probably wrong or have come up with a way that accurately describes how I was wronged and why that makes me angry or sad. My husband is also the type that needs to think it out before talking so it works, unfortunately his process is way slower than mine.
I don’t know if it is a healthy way of dealing but it works for both of us and neither of us had healthy examples of any relationship in our lives so we take what we can get
Moc@lemmy.world 1 year ago
I’m Australian, but we tend to do the inverse. Whoever is angry sleeps on the couch.
It’s a much better system, because it incentivises trying to solve the problem
Anamana@feddit.de 1 year ago
What if both are angry? :D
Moc@lemmy.world 1 year ago
Then neither of us sleep on the bedroom obviously
Anamana@feddit.de 1 year ago
Nice.